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Jan 25, 2022 14:56
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆
If he bought it for you without you asking, you’d be like, “Huh?”
But if you asked him to, then consider the wallet the allowance.
It makes absolutely no sense to give you one present and then stop paying an allowance altogether.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here.
If your usual allowance is 50,000 yen, then the man went all out and gave you twice that—100,000 yen.
So when he says there won’t be any allowance the next time you meet, you should be able to smile and say something like:
“Of course. You bought me something this nice. I’ll make it up to you next time.”
When you show how happy you are, he’ll probably want to do even more for you.
I can’t say whether your allowance will increase, but the 100,000-yen wallet he gave you this time might turn into something worth around 200,000 yen next time.
And if you continue seeing each other, he might even give you a gift worth around a million yen.
No matter how inexpensive the gift is, be genuinely thrilled when you receive it. Jump for joy right there, and if you’re somewhere private, give him a hug.
That will make him want to do more and more for you.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you think he’s stingy, just cut ties with him.
The man will simply move on to other women and learn from this experience.
He might become the kind of man other women appreciate, so please cut him loose sooner rather than later.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The more you want, the farther you move from being satisfied.
That’s just how it works.
Paper Airplane
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
There’s a saying: “A beggar in a hurry gets less.” If you rush to get as much as possible out of someone, you could end up losing everything.
Men who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are often worried that a young woman might take advantage of them or make them uncomfortable. Easing those concerns is what leads to a higher allowance.
Unfortunately, you’re doing the exact opposite, so you may not be very well suited to papa-katsu.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
By the way, did you ask him for the wallet yourself?
If so, he may have seen it as a substitute for your allowance. I’d like to think you wouldn’t have considered cutting things off after getting the wallet if you had asked him to buy it for you...
So, did he buy it for you out of his own kindness?
If that’s the case, I suppose all you can do is ask him to provide your allowance separately.
Personally, if I received something I wanted as a gift, I might be okay with not receiving an allowance next time.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Seriously, telling him on your own, “You don’t have to give me an allowance next time♡,” can actually be a way to receive more allowance in the long run.
Somehow, it creates a sense that he owes you a favor. Then, when something comes up, he’ll probably help you out. At least, that’s how it should work.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you asked your papa (a male supporter) for it, then there’s not much you can do.
But if he bought it on his own, I think it’s fine to say, “It’s awful that you bought this without asking and then didn’t give me my allowance.”
If he still doesn’t give you your allowance after that, I think you’re better off cutting ties with him.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You would’ve preferred cash since you don’t need another wallet, right...? Poor thing.
And it might’ve even been a fake.
Cut that stingy papa off immediately.