I’m starting work in April, but I’m not confident I can stop going to host clubs. How can I quit? My friends and acquaintances have been telling me to stop for ages, and I’ve been saying I’ll quit once I graduate. But I keep wanting to see him, so I went to see my favorite host yesterday and the day before, and I feel like I’ll go again today after my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). 😭
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I know I should stop because I can’t save any money, but I just can’t. How do you all manage to quit going to host clubs?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Hosts can’t make a living unless they turn people like you, the questioner, into sources of income.
They work hard at sales and such so they can successfully get women to spend money on them.
Even if you play around on the cheap, you won’t be able to stop.
In a way, the smartest thing to do is go all out, then cut your losses quickly.
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I can’t relate to being obsessed with hosts in the slightest, but I’ve seen plenty of men go crazy over hostesses. Basically, you can’t really lose yourself in it without money to burn. Spending what you’ve earned is one thing, but once you start dipping into money you shouldn’t touch—like your family’s living expenses or your children’s education costs—or borrowing money, it becomes incredibly hard to escape.
In that respect, you’re lucky, aren’t you? You can always go as long as you’re willing to open your legs for some old guy. So tonight, by all means, clutch the money you earned from spreading your legs and charge straight toward your favorite host’s crotch. Don’t say something tacky like telling me to stop. If I stopped you, I’d be denying everything you’ve done by spreading your legs for old men until now!
Please, spare me that much, senpai!
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
You should start playing Apex Legends. It’s free-to-play, really fun, and everyone fawns over you just because you’re a girl. I recommend it to anyone who’s obsessed with host clubs.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think you can’t quit because that’s the only thing you’re dependent on. Try finding something else to depend on. The quickest way would be to get a boyfriend.
Find yourself a loser who doesn’t constantly ask you for money, and cling to him for the rest of your life—you’ll forget all about hosts. Good luck.
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