I only joined recently, but honestly, I have to say there seem to be very few women who really catch my eye. To be frank, isn’t the overall level kind of low?
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I wasn’t expecting a selection of celebrity-level women, but I did think there would at least be plenty of girls who’d rank among the top five prettiest in their class…
To be perfectly honest, even in the Platinum class, most of the women are only about average-looking. I found myself thinking, “If this is the level, I could meet women like this through a free matching app or at a hostess club without going to the trouble of submitting my driver’s license and credit card and paying a membership fee to join a dating club.”
I had been hoping for a level comparable to that of a certain paid-companionship app, so I’m sorry to say this to the management, but I can’t deny that my enthusiasm has taken a hit.
Of course, I understand that what matters in an arrangement with a kept partner isn’t just looks, but overall qualities including intelligence and hospitality.
That said, and I say this with some trepidation, I can’t deny feeling disappointed when it comes to appearance. For an organization that is supposedly a leader in the industry, it feels rather underwhelming…
I’d also like to ask those of you with more experience: are there often cases where the woman looks more beautiful in person than in her photos? Or is the papa-katsu path about finding wonderful women from within this generally modest range of quality?
I may have been a little too blunt, but I joined with a certain level of financial risk, commitment, and expectation involved, so…
Maybe I was expecting too much, but honestly, as things stand, I don’t feel particularly motivated to make active use of the service.
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂30s👑Universe male member
I’m Taro, a male member.
First of all, didn’t you look at sample members when you joined? They showed you women from every class and asked something like, “Which one do you want?” At that point, shouldn’t you have judged whether the quality seemed acceptable for the price? If you joined without doing that and are now complaining, your standards are seriously low.
Second, Universe has nearly 7,000 female members in total. These days, the women you can view are restricted based on your membership class, but even with a Standard membership, you should be able to see several thousand women up through Gold. Did you look through all of them?
Third, is Universe the only club you joined? If you want to find attractive women registered with dating clubs, shouldn’t you join other clubs as well and expand your pool? If you’re serious about this, Universe should be just one part of your portfolio. And from that perspective, Universe—with its large number of members—is a blue-chip investment.
So, questioner, you’re hopelessly naïve. I’d be delighted if you came the day before yesterday. (Translation: Get lost.)
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I may have already swept up and locked down all the women between Kansai and Kanto.
I’ve even expanded into Hiroshima.
Since my allowance is so generous, they end up quitting their clubs on their own.
Most popular women already have several papas, and I may be the one who delivers the final blow.
Something like:
“Now that I’ve got three generous papas, I’m going to quit the club♡”
The two women I’ve locked down are absolute stunners. One of them even appears on TV.
I’ve also locked down one stunning A-type woman, and even the girl I met recently was so beautiful that, despite being used to beautiful women myself—a downgraded version of Muneo Suzuki—I was genuinely taken aback.
“Whoa!”
They’re out there if you look carefully, but lowlife old guys like me, who slap them with wads of cash, end up locking them down first.
It’s just like buying up old properties.
If you don’t move the moment they hit the market, you don’t stand a chance.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
You have to go out there and rack up plenty of experience before saying that—otherwise, it just isn’t convincing.
You sound like a new employee who starts by making excuses.
First, go out there and get plenty of experience. That’s the point.
And, speaking in extremes, don’t rely on other people. If you’re into a woman, win her over on your own. Use the system if you want, but I don’t think you should depend on it.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Someone previously suggested here that, because of COVID, relatively desirable women may already be tied up by existing members. That might actually be the case.
I know an incredibly beautiful woman who used to work at a lounge in Nishi-Azabu before COVID, but she left when the pandemic began and is now being exclusively supported by one of her clients.
As for my papa (setting aside whether I’m considered a desirable woman), I can tell from looking at his phone that he hasn’t made a single new offer. And perhaps because the papas I used to see have also been holding back on making offers, I’ve been getting a truly surprising number of messages asking, “Could we meet again?”
Maybe the pandemic has made people more cautious.
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This is Joe. I feel the same way. I only made one offer last year. Not that it’s anything to brag about, but when I first joined, I was making offers to five people a month—like a middle schooler who’d just discovered masturbation. I used to check the new members every day, too. These days, I mostly just browse anonymous message boards.
I suppose meeting someone in person could create a whole different kind of chemistry, but if you don’t even feel like making an offer in the first place, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to call it quits.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
That’s too bad. You spent your hard-earned savings, and it ended up being such a waste. Still, you have about a year ahead of you, so you might meet an absolute beauty in the meantime. Good things come to those who wait.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I agree that, as you mentioned, there aren’t many women who look like actresses. But I’m satisfied.
I’m not an actor myself—I’m an old man with graying hair, after all… So the women willing to spend time with an old guy like me are very cute（笑）
Both men and women join dating clubs with their own risks, resolve, and expectations. I think the best approach is to meet a woman who’s willing to date you and build a mutually beneficial relationship.
Oh~ Paper Airplane-san!
Really? Has it already been a year?
If you hold back from making offers for about a year, you’ll develop some resistance and won’t feel as eager to make offers anymore.
Well, in my case, I tend to become quite close with my dating partner, so I end up thinking, “This girl is all I need!”
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
LOL.
Most women on dating apps and in hostess clubs aren’t prepared for an adult relationship (intimate), are they?
If you’re handsome and good at actively pursuing women, then by all means—go ahead and try dating apps or hostess clubs.
I go to Ginza clubs, use dating apps, and attend paid social events, but I don’t see things the way you do…
Profile photos are often taken by club staff or amateurs, so in many cases, people seem more attractive once you meet them in person.
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If you’ve only recently joined, it’s understandable that you might feel that way…
Even I haven’t contacted a single woman to make a new offer in about a year.
People say things will never return to how they were before COVID, and now that we’re not even back to the COVID-era situation… perhaps we’ve already missed our chance…
It’s possible things may return to something closer to how they were before, but
I think many people—especially wonderful women—have built deeper, more intimate relationships than ever as a result of COVID. So if you don’t currently have someone you’re happy with and particularly like, you may face some difficulties wherever you go. At least for the time being…
Paper Airplane
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Then just keep quiet and leave already, lol.
You’ve casually looked down on everyone—male and female members, staff, the whole lot. The view from up there must be pretty nice, huh? lol
Quit rambling and head for the exit already, lol.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
So instead of complaining, why not try a free dating app or a hostess club?
I prefer making an offer rather than overthinking things based solely on photos, and I really like dating clubs. I’ve completely lost any desire to go to hostess clubs.
I don’t think dating clubs are necessarily right for every man. Some people may find hostess clubs or adult entertainment venues a better fit.
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