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Jan 24, 2022 11:26
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you look at the women’s date reviews on another page of the club’s website, you’ll see that comments saying it was “great” or “good” overwhelmingly outnumber the negative ones.
This Q&A box is basically a dumping ground where women who want to complain come to vent their stress and frustration in the form of questions.
Everyone needs to let off steam sometimes, right?
Of course, since they’re having sex with men old enough to be their fathers, I’m sure some women are putting up with more or less.
I believe my monthly partner is making compromises for me too, so I always try to avoid doing anything she dislikes as much as possible. I want to be a papa who truly understands that and is considerate of her.
Other
I’m Aya, one of the female members.
This site is inherently biased because it attracts people who are struggling, so it can seem like a lot of women have had bad experiences with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It’s similar to how a mental health clinic naturally has many patients dealing with mental health issues.
Of course, I’ve had some difficult experiences too, but I’ve had even more happy ones, so I’m glad I tried papa-katsu. There are women like that, too.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I don’t think women do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) reluctantly simply because there are so many strange male members. If women doing papa-katsu had enough money to live comfortably and elegantly, I doubt most of them would do it at all. I imagine they wouldn’t want anything to do with papa-katsu men who are, as people, truly the worst.
In life, you often have to sacrifice one thing to gain another.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
It depends on what you use as your standard, but to some extent, every registered male member is a bit strange.
That said, there are probably a fair number of decent ones.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
There are probably some odd male members, but I think there are odd female members too. They may have had a bad experience, but the usual response would be to keep your distance and walk away.
You may be seeing mostly these pseudo-questions from strange female members, but I think it’s dangerous to judge the entire community based on just one small corner of it.
In reality, I think the majority are men and women who aren’t particularly interested in or motivated to be active in dating clubs. The next largest group would be members who may not be completely satisfied with the current situation, but simply think, “I guess this is how it is.”
P.S.
Actually, the largest group may be the members—about half of them, apparently—who don’t receive a single offer for six months.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think that’s because people who are enjoying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) either become answerers or don’t even know this message board exists, so it’s mostly people with complaints who come here to look around and ask questions.
Still, I’m sure it’s full of girls who are frustrated...
There are more and more stingy papas (male supporters), and they’re all offering an allowance of just 5...
Poor things... No wonder they’re fed up...