There seem to be a lot of men here who’ve experienced a “we did it, so we got married” situation. I thought it was more common among younger people, but seeing older guys who’ve been through it too, it really makes me laugh—this place attracts dishonest, unserious people who are weak to short-term pleasure.
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The person who tried to have unprotected sex with me turned out to be someone who had had a child without planning for one.
For those who have had an unplanned child, how do you think about and interact with that child?
It seems like things would be different between a child conceived after following the proper steps and preparing for parenthood, and one conceived with pleasure taking priority, wouldn’t they?
What do you think of people who’ve had a “we did it” experience and make excuses like, “It was a blessing”?
I think they simply lost to their own desire for pleasure.
If there were a punishment involving cutting off the part used for unprotected ejaculation, it would make papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) easier and I’d be happy.
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The older man you’re talking about was young once too.
I don’t think people who are able to take responsibility for their actions need others criticizing them.
How a child comes into the world has nothing to do with loving that child.
Nothing can compare to a child—they’re Japan’s treasure.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think he’s a sincere person because he didn’t run away and got married. I’ve never accidentally gotten someone pregnant, but I also know that having a child isn’t something you can necessarily achieve just by planning for it. So I think saying that children are a blessing is quite fitting.
It sounds like the person asking the question is struggling mentally, so I think they should take some time to rest.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
Marriage is a system created by the state. For example, if two people both agree that they’re married, I think you could say they’re married even if they haven’t submitted the paperwork to the government.
The issue here is whether the documents have been filed and whether the state recognizes the marriage.
I assume what you’re saying is that this happened even though the two of you didn’t both agree to it.
If that’s the case, you should have a proper conversation about contraception, and you shouldn’t date someone who refuses to have that conversation.
I think the discussion is going in a slightly strange direction, so it might help to organize your thoughts and look at the situation again.
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Do you know how heartbreaking it is for couples who want children after getting married to undergo fertility treatment and still be unable to conceive? Honestly, I sometimes think it would be fine if every couple got pregnant before marriage and then tied the knot.
The birthrate is declining because more people who are financially capable are overthinking things and choosing not to have children. I think everyone should have more children.
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People who have never failed are kind of shallow, aren’t they? (Except Mac, lol.)
I’ve made plenty of mistakes, so by now I can usually spot most of the people to avoid.
That said, I still mess up, and I plan to keep trying new things without being afraid of failure.
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