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Jan 24, 2022 07:41
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Being able to date multiple people is a wonderful thing. Once you’re legally married, it would be illegal, but until then, you might as well enjoy life to the fullest.
Even if a woman I’m involved with were dating multiple people, it wouldn’t bother me at all. Women become more beautiful when they fall in love often, after all.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer this too.
Some men, for example, think a polygamous marriage would be nice.
Even if a woman is dating multiple men, it isn’t illegal, so I don’t think it’s strange for some women to feel that way.
That said, if I found out that the woman I was dating was also seeing other men, I’d probably feel like she was cheating on me.
But if you think about it in terms of finding the best man to marry before settling down, women may need to date several men. If they only dated one person at a time, time would just keep passing them by.
Even if marriage isn’t part of the picture, just as some men want to enjoy dating around, I don’t think it’s particularly strange for women to feel the same way.
The question is what to do about someone who thinks you’re in an exclusive relationship with them. If they agree from the beginning that you want to date multiple men, then you’ll only be seeing people who are comfortable with that, and it seems like there would be fewer problems.
People have all kinds of views, so I think it’s best to date someone who understands and accepts yours.
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Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
My female partner is like that. She has a boyfriend and multiple friends-with-benefits.
It doesn’t bother me, especially. I just think she’s an interesting and capable person.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
“I keep my boyfriend, casual sex partner, adult papa (intimate), dinner-only papa, and future husband in separate compartments,” a woman I knew once said coolly.
She ended up marrying a wealthy man and seems very happy.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I wouldn’t pull away because of it, but personally, I just can’t imagine doing that. I’d assume they must be feeling lonely or dissatisfied with their partner in some way.
That said, I’m also impressed by how they have the skill and stamina to date multiple people in real life, outside of a dating club. I just wish they could put those abilities toward work or something else instead.