I found out that my favorite papa-katsu girl has several very generous supporters. I shouldn’t have asked just out of curiosity.
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I pay her about ¥300,000 a month on a pay-per-meeting basis, while I hear her most generous supporters pay ¥900,000–¥1.3 million a month, and my mind has gone blank.
I can’t calm down. At the same time, it does make sense why she has treated me somewhat casually until now. What does she hope will happen between us? Is it difficult for us to become any closer given the amount of allowance I provide? How should I interact with someone who has such generous supporters going forward?
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Personally, I’d consider it lucky. The other generous (well-paying) papas are taking care of the money and gifts, so nothing is expected from me.
If you want to make an effort, focus on becoming the kind of man who can serve as a pleasant change of pace.
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the executive office as well.
Perhaps the person asking thought that, since she was already paying 300,000 yen a month, he was trying to increase the number of times they met—or even trying to have her all to himself?
If so, I think there may have been a slight misunderstanding.
That said, since you’ve been able to continue seeing each other on a monthly allowance of 300,000 yen, I think you can keep seeing him as long as you don’t start asking for more and more out of greed.
> Is it difficult for our relationship to become any closer with the allowance I’m currently receiving?
What exactly were you hoping for when you say “become any closer”? What were you dissatisfied with about the relationship as it is now?
Since this is a dating club, I think it’s best to refrain from asking for things the other person doesn’t want, such as having them all to yourself or seeing them every day.
Isn’t it possible to be fully satisfied with the relationship as it is?
> How should I deal with girls who have an extremely generous papa (well-paying supporter) from now on?
I think it’s fine to continue treating them the same way as before.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
I thought the same thing as Aya.
Really? Are there actually men who give that much?
Could it be that he was just saying it to try to raise the allowance the questioner is asking for?
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That tends to happen when the only thing you have going for you is the size of your allowance.
If you provide amazing dates, you absolutely won’t be treated that way.
◎ Amazing dates × ¥300,000 a month
With that combination, you won’t be treated carelessly.
Work out. Go to a nail salon. Get your dark spots removed. Improve your teeth.
There’s a lot you can do.
I want you to blame your lack of effort.
There’s nothing you can do about money, but you can make unlimited efforts.
Also, having multiple papas paying ¥900,000–¥1.3 million is 100% a lie.
You’re saying she has three papas like me, right?
If she were getting that much, she wouldn’t be dating someone who only pays ¥300,000 a month.
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There’s no need to panic.
I only said it because you asked.
As for being treated carelessly—wanting too much is unbecoming, so you should know when to stop.
Akari
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Don’t sweat it, haha. Whether it’s 30, 90, or 130, those figures are completely outside my world, so do whatever you want.
If she’s willing to see you for 30, isn’t that good enough?
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“I don’t need it—I already get a huge allowance and lots of gifts from my generous papa.”
Try to offer something beyond money, so they’ll want to see you even without an allowance.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I wonder if what she’s saying is really true… It sounds like she may be exaggerating.
If you believe her too readily without verifying it, and your attitude changes, that could end up making her dislike you.
I think you should continue treating her the same way as before.
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The fact that “extremely generous papa” turns into “extremely generous bapa” halfway through really shows how flustered you were lol.
Take a breath and sort things out calmly. Whether you ask her or not, the situation itself won’t change. Basically, this has nothing to do with you and those extremely generous papas—it’s only about the relationship between you and that woman.
Looking at it that way, I think the important point is that, even though she was asked, she told you about the other men’s allowances. Telling someone who receives less about a higher amount must mean something.
This could be a crisis, or it could be an opportunity to grow closer. You’ll probably want to find out which.
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You’ve been able to see people for 30 until now, so if anything, you should be more confident.
I think it’s fine to keep doing things the same way as before.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Why are you adults making such a fuss?
I don’t think she’s looking to take things in any particular direction. Even if she draws the line based on the amount of allowance, I think the relationship will deepen in proportion to what you’re able to offer.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I suppose I thought I was on the generous side, offering ¥300,000 a month.
I’m a low-paying papa (a male supporter) myself—once a month, pay-per-meeting, ¥50,000—so I’ve always understood that some papas offer more and never really worried about it.
But a decent woman may offer extra services to a generous (well-paying) papa, while still treating a low-paying papa with respect rather than being careless or dismissive.
Whether you grow closer depends not on the amount of the allowance, but on whether the woman finds you likable as a person.
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To put it bluntly, I’m not really sure what you’re struggling with.
Judging from your post, it seems you can continue the relationship as things are now. Am I wrong? If you want to be her number one, why not just offer a monthly allowance of 150,000 yen?
A presumably fairly mature gentleman shouldn’t be losing his head over something like this. Your brain might be starting to droop out, you know. Do be careful!
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