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Jan 22, 2022 14:24
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The person who recommended a dating club to my papa (a male supporter) seems to be making offer after offer, but my papa has only met with me—the first person he offered to meet (assuming he’s telling the truth).
Even among close friends, there can be that much of a difference, so I can only say that it really varies from man to man.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
In my case, I don’t make any new offers while I’m seeing someone, but I still pay my membership fees, browse the female members, and check my favorites—currently seven of them（笑).
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Even Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one.
Even after meeting a woman he likes, I think he may still want to meet other women as well.
I’m not sure whether he’s looking for someone even better at that point, but he does seem to have a desire to meet all kinds of different people.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Since this is just for fun, I can’t help being curious about whether there might be other beautiful women who are more my type.
That said, I wouldn’t mind if the woman I’m seeing were also looking for other men, wondering whether there might be someone better out there.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The more emotionally invested I get, the closer I feel we come to parting ways.
That’s why I’ve been reaching out to new women—to spread my feelings out a little.
But now I’ve ended up with three incredibly high-level women, each with a completely different type, and I feel like I can’t make any more offers.
I wonder if there are women out there who could surpass them...
They’re all wonderful, both in appearance and personality.
Other
I’m BB7.
If she’s not only beautiful but also has a great personality and we click, the rest doesn’t matter much to me.
If she’s just beautiful, I’ll get bored quickly and start wanting to look for someone else.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on the person and the circumstances.
Personally, once I meet a woman I really like, I don’t usually think there might be someone even better out there. However, I still look for other women to keep myself distracted and avoid getting too deeply involved, partly because I’m thinking about how much it would hurt if we ever parted ways.
And calling her a “hidden gem”? Absolutely not.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
> Or, if you meet a girl who’s your type, do you stop looking for anyone else?
Yes, that’s what happens.
Sometimes you meet someone you feel comfortable, relaxed, and completely at ease with.
Paper Airplane
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Ever since I met my current dating partner, every other woman I meet just feels underwhelming.
Even when I make an offer to a “Black”-ranked woman and meet her, my sex appeal radar doesn’t go off. I find both her looks and personality underwhelming, and I don’t feel like taking things any further.
My most recent offer was to a stunning, quintessential papa-katsu woman—someone with the typical “Black” look. But for some reason, I found her creepy and got scared, so I turned her down and ran.
I just can’t get motivated anymore when it comes to papa-katsu women who are after money. Honestly, it’s exhausting dealing with women who have half-baked pride. And starting a relationship from scratch feels like too much work.
That’s where I’m at, though I’m always thinking, “Isn’t there someone better out there?” Still, I don’t think the kind of person I’m looking for is here.
…But if you’re out there, raise your hand and make a reverse offer to me, lol.