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Jan 21, 2022 22:30
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
When I talk with the women I date, I don’t think the amounts are particularly low.
That said, the allowance is negotiated based on what both people are comfortable with.
If 50,000 yen feels low to you, then it’s low. Some women may even feel that 100,000 yen isn’t enough.
Personally, I’d like to date a woman who genuinely appreciates receiving an allowance.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Looking back on my own experiences, things didn’t continue with the men offering 50,000 yen.
I know I’m being hypocritical here, but I gradually started thinking:
“He’s a nice person, but even if I spend time with him, all I’m getting is an extra 50,000 yen… If that’s the case, I’d rather spend more time with a papa I genuinely like and feel happier…”
In the end, the men offering a monthly arrangement or 80,000 or 110,000 yen per meeting were the ones who remained. Eventually, I stopped wanting to see anyone except my monthly papa, and that’s where things stand now.
Strangely enough, the man offering 50,000 yen kept contacting me again and again even after I faded out. I even found myself wondering if he was thinking, “Thanks for accepting 50,000 yen.”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
An allowance of 50,000 yen for an adult relationship is below average, so it’s fine to cut ties with that stingy papa.
For reference, the going rates for adult-relationship allowances at Universe are:
Standard: 60,000 yen and up
Gold: 80,000 yen and up
Platinum: 100,000 yen and up
Black: 120,000 yen and up
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
That’s expensive.
Honestly, papa-katsu women who get hung up on such trivial things while being half-committed are the worst. If you’re going to do it, do it. If you’re not, then don’t. Otherwise, you’ll never grow.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think that’s a reasonable amount.
If all you care about is how much allowance you get, that’s not papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) anymore—it’s just making money off papas. I can’t imagine it being very fulfilling or enjoyable.
Paper Airplane
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I think everyone sees things differently. In the long run, a monthly arrangement may sometimes work out to more than receiving a large allowance just once.
Of course, from a woman’s perspective, it’s appreciated when someone is generous. But I also think there are times when you can learn things that are more valuable than the allowance. I hope we can cherish the connections we’re fortunate enough to make.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s an uncommon amount.
In fact, even at dating clubs where women list their desired allowance, I often see them asking for a “5.” It also seems that reputable scouts tell women that 5 is the standard allowance.
Of course, among the women listed at clubs that disclose allowances, I’ve seen models and entertainers asking for 8 or 10, as well as ordinary women asking for 6 or 7—and, very rarely, even 10. On the other hand, I’ve also seen 3 and 4. Since these are only the women’s asking prices, there doesn’t seem to be any particular connection between appearance and the desired allowance.
I’ve seen people who are fairly well-known asking for 11 or more, but I’ve never seen an ordinary woman asking for 2 or less.