Even though we ended things, my former papas periodically message or call asking if we can meet.
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I turn them down every time and have also told them that I’m seeing other papas.
I know I could simply block their messages and calls, but I don’t understand why they keep reaching out.
Can you really develop such strong feelings for someone even after only three or four months?
Also, for both male and female members, when do you find yourself wanting to contact someone from your past?
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
The person asking the question must be extremely attractive.
If he hasn’t blocked you, I think there’s still a chance.
In fact, I know several people who got back in touch after breaking things off and resumed their relationship. Sometimes the woman reaches out after a long time, too.
If you don’t want to hear from him, I think you should just block him.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
If you were the one who brought up breaking things off, the man may still have lingering feelings.
He may even wonder if there’s a chance you’ll meet again.
It might be best to understand that men can be different from women in this respect. And simply think, “Maybe that’s just how men are.”
A few years ago, someone asked whether they could make a second offer to the same person—even if they had to pay.
I think the underlying issue was the same. Even after being blocked, some men can’t help thinking there might still be a chance if the opportunity arises.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
While sorting through old messages with girls I’d seen before, I suddenly found myself missing them and wanting to meet again, so I reached out. Sometimes we’ve reconnected, but if she turns me down or ignores me, I stop contacting her after that.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think it’s about feelings. I think it’s because you can meet a woman you already know without paying a matchmaking fee.
Personally, I never feel the urge to contact anyone I’ve dated in the past.
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