Tips Jan 21, 2022 14:27

The places my P takes me to are always way too cheap. I know we usually meet for lunch, so I get that it won’t be expensive, but I just looked up tomorrow’s restaurant and the reserved set menu is less than ¥3,000. And he ignored the dish I said I wanted to eat. Why am I being taken somewhere for a set menu that doesn’t even cost ¥3,000? I could go there with a friend. If I’m being made to eat a cheap set menu, I’d rather order à la carte. For lunch, à la carte is enough, right? What’s even good about set menus?

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Ugh, I can’t be bothered with tomorrow.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well. > “If it’s just lunch, ordering à la carte should be enough, right?” If you put it that way, you might end up being taken to a family restaurant, so it may be better to avoid wording it like that.
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If we can’t hit it off over dinner, there’s no point in meeting. Paper Airplane
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To answer your question first, I think the reason he chooses a set course is that he wants to know the price upfront. I can understand how the papa feels. There are plenty of reasonably priced restaurants with good food. Maybe the issue isn’t how much the restaurants he takes you to cost, but rather the taste or atmosphere. It may be difficult to have a relationship where you can genuinely enjoy meals together.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. If dinner feels like too much of a hassle, how would you feel if someone messaged you out of the blue saying: “Since dinner isn’t necessary, why don’t we go straight to a room?”
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My top two (though it’s recently become three) only take me to conveyor-belt sushi places. We often go to family restaurants too, and sometimes we’ll buy rice balls at a convenience store and eat them in the car, saying how delicious they are. Maybe it comes down to how you treat them. When I see how genuinely happy they are even at an inexpensive place, I feel like handing them a whole wad of cash.
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Aizawa from the Customer Success Group here as well. There’s a possibility they see you as someone worth only that much, too. If you don’t like it, I think you should just tell them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Tell him yourself.
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It’s a set menu because it’s a hassle to think through and choose à la carte dishes for you. But if you’d rather choose for yourself, I think you should just say so. Marika
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