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Jan 21, 2022 14:27
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Ugh, I can’t be bothered with tomorrow.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well.
> “If it’s just lunch, ordering à la carte should be enough, right?”
If you put it that way, you might end up being taken to a family restaurant, so it may be better to avoid wording it like that.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If we can’t hit it off over dinner, there’s no point in meeting.
Paper Airplane
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
To answer your question first, I think the reason he chooses a set course is that he wants to know the price upfront. I can understand how the papa feels.
There are plenty of reasonably priced restaurants with good food. Maybe the issue isn’t how much the restaurants he takes you to cost, but rather the taste or atmosphere. It may be difficult to have a relationship where you can genuinely enjoy meals together.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If dinner feels like too much of a hassle, how would you feel if someone messaged you out of the blue saying:
“Since dinner isn’t necessary, why don’t we go straight to a room?”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
My top two (though it’s recently become three) only take me to conveyor-belt sushi places.
We often go to family restaurants too, and sometimes we’ll buy rice balls at a convenience store and eat them in the car, saying how delicious they are.
Maybe it comes down to how you treat them. When I see how genuinely happy they are even at an inexpensive place, I feel like handing them a whole wad of cash.
Other
Aizawa from the Customer Success Group here as well.
There’s a possibility they see you as someone worth only that much, too. If you don’t like it, I think you should just tell them.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Tell him yourself.
Other
It’s a set menu because it’s a hassle to think through and choose à la carte dishes for you. But if you’d rather choose for yourself, I think you should just say so.
Marika