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Jan 21, 2022 12:34
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I’m the same, and looking at the people around me, regardless of their reasons, the result is that they have low standards regarding chastity, which is why they’re able to choose that path and do papa-katsu.
And yet, I find it strange that men expect PJ girls from our generation to have a pure, refined image or give off an upper-class-lady vibe. I’m thinking, “Huh? What is this guy even talking about? lol,” and laughing to myself, but I can’t believe they don’t understand such simple logic.
Even though they expect that kind of image from PJ girls our age, it’s a little creepy and stressful. I don’t say it to them, though.
If they’re looking for a pure, refined, upper-class-lady type, I feel like they might find that among PJ girls in their forties—though I’m just imagining that since I’ve never met any. What do you think?
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You want to satisfy your material desires badly enough to be held by someone that gross, so just play along quietly.
It’s the same as you offering your body to satisfy your desires—the man pays to satisfy his.
Same thing, isn’t it?
I don’t need you showing off your assumptions based on your own standards.
Akari
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
From a woman’s perspective, it’s rare to find a papa (a male supporter) who offers a good allowance, isn’t pushy, has a good personality, doesn’t smell, looks youthful, and is handsome.
In the same way, from a man’s perspective, women who are refined, cute, stylish, kind, considerate, and pleasant to be around are rare—you have to make lots of offers before you meet one.
It’s not that neither exists at all. They’re rare, but they do exist.
Is this really such a difficult logic to understand? (笑)
I know they’re not genuinely refined in the truest sense of the word. It’s the “refined” image that’s popular.
Take announcer Rena Hironaka, for example. When she bluntly says on TV, “I’ve been popular because I have this kind of face,” she has a slightly youthful, innocent-looking face.
You can tell from watching her that her personality isn’t necessarily like that. I actually like that Fuu can play the part so cleverly, too.
Since men are the ones paying, matching men’s preferences means receiving more money. That’s just basic marketing—and a basic principle of the world, isn’t it?
But still… you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because you want to make a lot of money, right?