https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/11166

Apparently, the man I’m seeing was the one who posted this question lol He sent me the URL and said, “Everyone’s saying your attitude is terrible,” lol Well, if you only read what he wrote, I guess I do sound awful—but he left out way too much in the first place. I’m annoyed, so let me explain. >There have been times when she didn’t reply, and when I pointed it out, she said, “It didn’t seem like an email that needed a reply.” I’m not going to reply to messages sent at 2 or 3 a.m. saying things like “I’ve arrived at ○○” or “I’ve arrived at the ○○ hotel.” I’m asleep. By the time I wake up, another message has already come in early in the morning, so I reply to that and include a response to the messages from the middle of the night. >Even when we meet, she does nothing but complain, which makes me feel depressed. I’m only stopping him from loudly making rude comments about other papa-katsu couples in the restaurant and the staff—comments they might overhear, like saying someone is bald or that a couple is mismatched. I listen properly when he talks about himself, and I respond appropriately too. Oh, and I do stop him when he’s talking with food in his mouth. I also point it out when he orders things without asking. I’d like him to take a look at himself for once, since he keeps making the same complaints over and over. >Even when I give her presents, she refuses them, saying she doesn’t need them, and sometimes she even gets angry and says, “I told you I didn’t want them.” He gives me things like menstrual products and panty liners. Of course I refuse them—they make me uncomfortable. >Even when I invite her on a trip, she says things like, “I can’t get time off,” or “You need to tell me at least a month in advance.” What am I supposed to do if he suddenly says, “I’m going to ○○ tomorrow. What time should we meet?” I have to arrange things around work, so is it really strange to say that I can’t go on a trip unless I’m told at least a month in advance? To N.O. You’re a strange person in many ways, but you were interesting, and we occasionally had good conversations, and I learned things from you, which is why I continued seeing you. But I’m fed up now. You haven’t replied to my emails, but if you want your money back, I’ll return the full 1,000,000 yen instead of just 900,000 yen. I have no intention of answering your calls. I need to keep everything properly documented because you start lying so quickly. You have a habit of stopping your replies whenever things become inconvenient, so please rein that in for once and reply.