I gave her one million yen as a year’s worth of spending money. Since then, her attitude has been terrible, and she never contacts me at all. When I email her, I finally get a reply. Once, she didn’t respond, and when I pointed it out, she said, “It didn’t seem like an email that needed a reply.”
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Even when we meet, she does nothing but complain, and it really gets me down. She refuses gifts, saying she doesn’t want them, and sometimes even gets angry, saying, “I told you I didn’t want it.”
When I invite her on a trip, she says things like, “I can’t get time off,” or “You need to tell me at least a month in advance.”
It’s been about a month since I gave her the one million yen, but her attitude is just too awful. Do you think it would be possible to get 900,000 yen back?
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This is Joe.
If you ask whether there’s a way to get it back, there might be—but I’d tell you to let it go because it would be humiliating. I’m not fond of calling it “tuition,” but cutting ties immediately is more than a million times more important than recovering 900,000 yen. If you still plan to stay in touch, then in my view, it hasn’t really become a lesson learned.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Yeah… I paid my tuition too (T_T)
It wasn’t quite this bad, but it still hurt, so I was the one who ended things. If you paid, then it’s ultimately your own responsibility. If you were expecting goodwill, you could also say you were taken advantage of because of it. That’s really all there is to it lol.
You could even look at it as having brought out their true feelings sooner, so maybe it worked out for the best lol. That doesn’t mean you need to blame yourself, though. There are people who will treat you properly, so don’t let it get you down lol.
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Don’t do anything like Osaka-san did.
Osaka-san, the MVP of the papa-katsu summit, lost ¥1 million too.
After receiving ¥10,000 in prize money, the total damage came to ¥990,000.
I’ll just focus on working hard.
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I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
You probably won’t be able to get it back. If you gave it to her, you shouldn’t ask her to return it. You need to accept that before handing it over. You chose the wrong person to give it to.
I’m also shocked that such an awful woman exists…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’ll be difficult to get it back. You probably thought you understood, but when it comes to money, how you hand it over is crucial. Consider this the price of the lesson, and handle it more wisely next time.
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