I’m Kazu, a male member.
Just because someone experienced sex for the first time through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re emotionally troubled or short on money.
There are also men whose first sexual experience is with a sex worker. That doesn’t mean they’re emotionally troubled or have a lot of money, either.
I think a first experience is simply that—a first experience.
When I see people making a fuss over COVID, I think, “Are they out of their minds?”
If you practice moderation, train regularly, and keep yourself in top condition, COVID is nothing more than a common cold.
That said, plenty of people probably look at me training even on dangerously hot days—despite not being a professional athlete—and think:
“This guy runs even in this heat. He’s definitely crazy.”
When I became an entrepreneur, even my own mother thought I had lost my mind and did everything she could to stop me.
But that crazy person is now extremely wealthy. I’m currently giving away 40 million yen a year through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’m aiming to increase that to 100 million yen.
It’s not like I’m simply wasting money. Money makes the world go round, and I’m convinced that the money I’m putting out there will come back to me as two or three billion yen 10 or 20 years from now. But no one is likely to accept this way of thinking. I’m probably being mocked as some kind of lunatic.
A woman who lost her virginity through papa-katsu could go on to become a future billionaire. She might make her own fortune, or she might meet a wonderful man through papa-katsu and become wealthy that way.
I won’t deny that losing one’s virginity is a major event, but everyone has their own circumstances. Some people may think married women who do papa-katsu are crazy, but I don’t. These days, practically every attractive female college student has a papa (a male supporter). Otherwise, how could they afford their beauty expenses?
I’m not denying the questioner’s views, but nothing comes from simply rejecting things. My impression was, “This is someone who’s closing themselves off from the future.”
I’m willing to try anything for the sake of the future without rejecting it outright.
Ah—actually, that’s not entirely true. I’ll continue condemning stingy old men and miserly grandpas who offer allowances of less than 50,000 yen.
They look down on young women and say, “I hate girls who are all about money!” while only offering an allowance of 50,000 yen themselves. I can’t help thinking, “You’re the one who’s obsessed with money! You’re the one with the problem!”
And when I see an old man lecturing girls who do papa-katsu full-time, telling them, “Get a job,” while only offering an allowance of 50,000 yen, I can’t help retorting:
“No, you get a job!”
Update:
I lost my virginity to a sex worker in Kanazuen, Gifu’s famous soapland district. She was an older woman weighing over 80 kilos and looked like a monster, but I’m doing well now, earning plenty of money and supporting women as a papa.
