Tips Jan 19, 2022 09:27

I feel like there’s no phrase more shallow than “I love you,” but can you all casually say things like “I love you,” “I like you,” or “I really like you”? Men don’t say things like that so easily, do they? I say them during sex, but it’s not like I actually mean that I really like them—I say them because it gets things going. But men won’t say it unless they genuinely like you.

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Why don’t they say it when it would get both of us more excited? That’s how I feel. It’s not like I genuinely like them either.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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I’m Nana Ayase ☆ I guess it’s because I can love many people at once. And I’d like them to say, “I love you♡” It’s not like I always get especially excited during intimate moments.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I don’t say that these days. But I do like gently patting her head and telling her she’s doing well. With the woman I’ve been seeing the longest, she gets really tight inside when I pat her during sex, so I love that part, haha.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
We argue with the understanding that it’s all an act.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. If that’s what I think, I’ll just say it. I might even say it several times, lol. But I never say it thinking it’ll make things more exciting, lol. If the other person isn’t looking for that, I think it naturally gets put away over time—that does happen.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I casually tell people I love them—but I say it because I genuinely like them.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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“ I want to see you♡” —that’s even more obvious, isn’t it? At this point, couldn’t they just smile and say, “I want to see my ATM because I need money♡”? Is that really too much to ask?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t say it. The idea that “saying it will get both of you excited” doesn’t apply to everyone. Personally, I’m put off when it feels insincere, and if she means it seriously, I find it burdensome.
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