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Jan 15, 2022 01:20
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When I tell my papa I want to shower alone because I’m embarrassed, he says he doesn’t understand what I could possibly be embarrassed about when we’ve already been intimate so many times. He also gets sulky every time, which is starting to be a little tiring.
I’d like to know if there’s a way to turn down showering together without making my papa feel bad.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Unfortunately, I don’t think there’s any way to turn down showering together without making your papa feel a little bad.
If you don’t want to, just tell him, “I really don’t want to, even if it makes you feel a little bad.” I think that should be fine.
You’ll probably lose quite a few points with him over this, but afterward, you could make it up to him by being extra attentive when you’re intimate.
That way, he may think, “Not being able to shower together is a minus, but she’s great when we’re intimate, so it balances out.”
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha, this papa is exactly like me. I feel a little embarrassed, as though you were talking about me.
Please keep looking after him while skillfully dodging the troublesome parts(笑)
Sorry this isn’t really an answer.
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I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
I can see how, if you’ve met many times, it might feel embarrassing to bring it up now. In that case, why not get in the shower together and have him wash you? He might even enjoy it!
If it’s a shower right after entering the room, you could say, “Wait for me♡ I’ll be right back,” and shower separately… but after intimacy, it’s harder to come up with a reason.
If he keeps sulking but still wants to see you again every time, he probably isn’t truly angry, so I think it’s fine to leave things as they are. He might even enjoy that little exchange between you two!
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I’d like to go in alone too.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ll take a shower with women who are comfortable joining me, but not with women who feel shy about it.
I also like the erotic thrill of lying in bed and listening to the sounds of a woman showering. It gets my heart racing.
Overall, I’d say I can’t bring myself to suggest showering together when I genuinely like a woman, but with women I’m seeing in a transactional relationship, I might want to join them for more erotic reasons.
A loser guy
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you could turn down the first shower, especially given the reason stated, but it would be harder to refuse later on—especially once you get used to each other.
Besides, there’s no need to date someone you feel like turning down in the first place…
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