Tips Jan 13, 2022 10:45

I was shocked by how different she looked without makeup and probably hurt her feelings. What should I message her?

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I told her that I was impressed by her makeup skills, that I thought she was really good at making her skin look lighter and smooth, without any unevenness, and that I just laughed because I was so impressed—not because I thought she was unattractive. I also said, “You’re better than a woman who doesn’t wear makeup.” But she hasn’t replied for about three days.
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 40s 👑 Not stated
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. If you realize you’ve hurt someone, shouldn’t you simply apologize first? Sending nothing but excuses is really unbecoming. If I make a mistake, I want to be the kind of adult who can sincerely apologize.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
“What? You’re over 40, and you can only offer 5 in allowance per pay-per-meeting arrangement? Hehe, lol. You’re a poor papa who can’t even make any money, huh? LOL” If that woman laughed at you like that, do you really think you could repair your relationship with her? You know it’s impossible, right? Just give up. A loser man
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I’m Osaka, a male member. Even the follow-up message is subtly taking a jab at her lol. This has to be a joke, right? If it’s not, he has a real talent for deliberately seeking out people to avoid. I hope he finds somewhere he can put that talent to use lol.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON. It’s just too awful… I’m at a loss for words.
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Teramoto from Universe Club’s Tokyo branch here as well. I think you should give up on her. Being laughed at without makeup is probably as hurtful for a woman as having a woman laugh at a man’s genitals when he’s naked. Even if she later messages you saying, “I didn’t mean I thought it was small—I thought it was cute,” you probably wouldn’t feel inclined to see her again… That’s basically what happened.
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Fuu
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist. It’s probably almost impossible. Being laughed at for your appearance would be hurtful.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. There’s really no hope for you. The worst part is the questioner’s character.
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I trusted him enough to show him my bare face, and then he laughed. That’s the end of it, right? How unbelievably insensitive. Even if he tries to tack on something like, “I was just moved,” that won’t cut it. And being laughed at by a papa-katsu papa, of all people… If my bare face looked that terrible, maybe he should look in the mirror first. Akari
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