I’ve been a black-tier male member for three years, but I still haven’t met a woman who’s a perfect match in looks, figure, personality, and chemistry. Six months is about the longest any arrangement has lasted.
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I’ll think, “She’s my type physically, but her personality is…” or “We get along, but she’s not exactly my ideal type looks-wise,” or “The chemistry isn’t quite there…” and lose interest over the things I can’t bring myself to compromise on.
I’m not looking to have relationships with a large number of women. I’m looking for a mistress I can stay with for life. I’ve told my representative that as well, but is Universe simply not a good fit for someone looking for a long-term mistress?
I haven’t received a single complaint from a woman in the three years I’ve been a member. (So far, Universe has never contacted me, and no woman has ever said anything to me directly. Maybe they just find it difficult to bring up.)
I also considered joining Salon. I went to hear about it once after the salon was relaunched, but I didn’t feel motivated to join. From what I’ve seen here, there doesn’t seem to be much difference between it and Universe.
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
I actually met my current papas somewhere other than Univ, but if I didn’t already have papas, I would’ve loved to accept your offer…
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I’m Dai, a male member.
No one is going to be a perfect match in every way—we’re not robots.
If you can’t broaden the areas where you’re willing to compromise, you probably won’t be able to maintain a long-term relationship.
For example, if you insist on finding someone who’s ideal in every respect before getting married, you’ll miss your chance, right?
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
It’s best not to set your expectations too high.
You’ve already confirmed her appearance and other details when making the offer, so I don’t think you should ask for more than that. If you simply build a good relationship with the woman in front of you, it feels like it could continue indefinitely.
Even if you look for someone at another dating club or salon with the mindset expressed in your question, you probably won’t find anyone.
I think fundamentally changing the way you view relationships is the quickest way to find a long-term partner.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
It’s not that we want relationships with lots of different people. I think most women would be happy if they could find just one wonderful person. Once you meet someone who matches your ideal, wouldn’t you want to see only them?
Just as you have your own ideals, women have theirs too. I hope you find someone who’s a great match for you!
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’ve met people who are pretty much exactly my type, both looks- and personality-wise, but six months is about the longest it ever lasts.
If you’re talking about someone for life, I feel like finding a lifelong mistress privately is more realistic than looking here.
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I’m the “loser” male member (though I probably don’t need to introduce myself that way, since my profile is displayed anyway).
> Is Universe Club not suitable for finding a long-term mistress?
It’s practically perfect for it. I’d even like them to use the slogan, “If you’re looking for a long-term mistress, go to Universe Club.”
I found two women through Universe Club. One was introduced by my club representative, and I found the other through the usual process.
If I may make one point: I believe a papa has to nurture the Cinderella who will walk through life with him.
I’ve nurtured both of them, and a third is currently blossoming as well. I made the best preparations, provided the best dates every time, and continued giving them a generous allowance.
Are you asking for an adult relationship every time? That would be unfair to the women. Having an adult relationship every time isn’t papa-katsu—it’s “hole-katsu.”
You’d like the woman to occasionally suggest a date without an allowance, wouldn’t you? In the same way, try taking her out for a meal after giving her the allowance for an adult relationship. Even when she’s on her period, continue seeing her and give her the allowance for an adult relationship.
Only through repeating this process can an ordinary woman gradually become a Cinderella before you know it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think Universe is the right fit for me because, if you want to find someone you can stay with long-term, you have to meet a lot of women and look for someone you’re compatible with.
Also, I believe the man has to make an effort to keep things going. Having no complaints is just the bare minimum, in my opinion.
P.S. That said, I don’t think you’ll easily find a woman at any dating club who’ll stay with you for life.
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