Tips Jan 12, 2022 16:44

I’m about to meet my papa for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I really, really don’t want to see him… but I need the money. He likes me, but he’s in his 60s, has bad breath, and is boring to talk to. I’m not even confident I’ll be able to get properly aroused or be tight enough down there… How do you all motivate yourselves??

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I’m Aya, a female member. I only enter into an adult relationship (intimate) with someone who genuinely gets me excited.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I’d advise against pursuing a relationship that’s only about the money. I’m in my 60s too, but I never pressure even the women I’m fond of, so I imagine the other male member feels the same way. You should talk to him sooner rather than later. I don’t recommend continuing a relationship that isn’t enjoyable.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON. If you absolutely need the money and can’t stand it, then you should look for another job. That said, if you want to make tens of thousands of yen in a short amount of time, you may have no choice but to put up with it. I can’t fully understand how you feel since I’m not in a situation where I desperately need money, but perhaps you just have to view it as a transactional relationship for the sake of the money. Please don’t push yourself too hard!
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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Even if the allowance is high, you still don’t want to deal with a gross old guy, right? And even if your papa (a male supporter) looks good and is fun to be around, if he only gives you 5 for the allowance, you start thinking, “I wish he’d increase the allowance…” It builds up into a little stress, and eventually you don’t even want to see him anymore, right? I completely understand how you feel. I really do, but maybe the only option is to keep trying your luck with the papa lottery until you get a winner… —A loser of a man
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t think anyone dates someone they don’t want to meet.
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