I’m a female member. Cervical carcinoma in situ was found, and I’m scheduled for surgery next month. It’ll only require a few days in the hospital, but I won’t be able to have sex for about a month and a half afterward. Would men think it’s strange if I asked whether they’d still like to meet for dinner only during that time? (I’ve been seeing them for a long time, but all of my papas only meet me when an adult relationship is involved.)
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Also, would they be put off if I told them I can’t have sex because I had surgery for carcinoma in situ? Would it be better to simply say that I’m in pain because I tore something vaginally, or something similarly innocuous?
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I think you should be honest with him. If you’ve been seeing each other for a long time, you’ve probably built a certain level of trust. I think it’s better to tell him in advance.
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I’m date◎yume, a male member.
In my case, I’d rather you just tell me. As for the relationship, I’ve always paid per meeting, whether or not it involved an adult relationship (intimate), but I’ve arranged things so that it becomes a fixed monthly amount...
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This is Umino from the staff.
Rather than trying to cover it up awkwardly, I believe it would be better for both the gentleman and you to be honest about the situation.
If you intend to continue the relationship, lying about it now could affect things going forward.
Please take good care of yourself. m(_ _)m
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I’m a male member—the kind of guy who always loses out.
I’m a sucker for those kinds of stories, so if it’s a girl I really like, I’ll even pay for her surgery.
And then she disappears on me. ｜･＿･）
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Even after a cone biopsy, you may continue to feel quite unwell for some time.
I think it’s better to explain things clearly—it will be better for you in the long run.
Please don’t push yourself.
Take good care of yourself.
Akari
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If you don’t make it clear, it could lead to misunderstandings—for example, they might pressure you or think you’re uncomfortable with them. Whether they’ll meet you for dinner only or give you an allowance depends on the person.
Take care.
Marika
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