I’ve started feeling jealous of my married friend because her husband absolutely adores her. It makes me wonder why I’m opening my legs for some old guy.
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He keeps telling her how cute she is, over and over, and even though she’s usually so laid-back, she looks incredibly happy… Her husband is successful and wealthy, and his surprises are amazing too. I’ve been seeing the two of them a lot lately, and it got me thinking.
I could have ended up like that too.
I want to feel financially and emotionally fulfilled enough that I wouldn’t need papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I feel like the more greedily I live, the farther I get from happiness.
But I still want to be ambitious.
What should I do?
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In another year or two, that kind of husband will probably be cheating on you too—there’s about a one-in-three chance. If he has money and seems popular with women, the odds may be even higher.
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This is Joe.
The cause-and-effect relationship is unclear, but for now, why not try keeping your legs closed around older men?
The manbo period in the three prefectures lasts until the end of this month, so you might as well make it a “keep-your-legs-closed period” until then too—also known as “mantoji.”
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You never know. That cool friend’s boyfriend might be cheating on her like crazy.
All you can do is trust your own path and keep moving forward.
—A loser guy
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think living greedily necessarily means moving farther away from happiness.
Whether you meet a good partner is a matter of luck, like drawing a lottery ticket. Rather than envying others, I think it’s best to live your own life to the fullest and do your best to make it a good one.
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