People who cheat or do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) should stick together. Please don’t enter the world of sincere people and ruin something beautiful.
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Why should those of us who are capable of loving just one person be the ones who get hurt?
I’d like to hear your opinions on how you justify encouraging behavior that hurts people like us.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
This is where we flock together—
legally.
If that’s what you think, questioner,
why deliberately come into this pack?
If you dislike this world, wouldn’t it be better not to come here in the first place?
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I understand how you feel, and I have no objections to what you said. There’s just one point I see differently: calling it a beautiful world.
Once you truly have someone who matters deeply to you, I don’t think it remains a beautiful world.
To protect someone more important to you than yourself, you may come to feel that it’s acceptable for someone else to be sacrificed or hurt. It’s messy and complicated beneath the surface—we just don’t show it.
That said, ideally, boyfriends and girlfriends, married couples, and partners would get along, put each other first, and remain happy together forever.
Akari
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I can understand why someone might think the way you do, but don’t you think it really comes down to personal perspective?
If I were in a relationship or married, I probably wouldn’t have joined SALON. But don’t you think dating clubs are healthy in their own way? Since there’s an allowance involved, I feel like it keeps a clear boundary in place. Wouldn’t it hurt more to have your heart stolen without even receiving an allowance?
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I’m a loser male member.
Aren’t the people in the “honest world” as the questioner defines it and the people in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) world fundamentally unable to cross paths?
They only intersect when honest people fall on hard financial times and enter the supposedly dishonest papa-katsu world. Otherwise, they wouldn’t meet.
By the way, there are plenty of honest girls doing papa-katsu. Actually, they’re all honest.
The dishonest ones are the stingy papas who offer a low allowance and the papas who don’t use condoms.
I wouldn’t call papas who say, “I’ve agreed with her, so it’s fine to pay a low allowance” dishonest—but they are sneaky papas, right? Because obviously, the women really want more.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Please don’t enter the world of sincere people and destroy its beauty.
First of all, what exactly do you mean by “the world of sincere people”?
I’d appreciate it if you could explain. It’s rather vague, so I’m not sure what you mean.
As the saying goes, “A wise person keeps away from danger.”
I think you should take responsibility for your own actions and live in a way that suits you.
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