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Jan 12, 2022 00:17
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🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Just send a sticker—that’s all you need to do.
Paper Airplane
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer too.
Try telling him something like, “I’m frustrated that we hardly ever get to see each other.”
You could also send a slightly pouty message like, “I’m not going to reply until we make plans to meet,” and then actually stop responding for a while.
I’m sure you’d like to see him too if you could, so I think it’s okay to tell him that.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
If messaging him isn’t a chore and he’s someone I’d like to see again someday, I reply.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
This month, I’ve been busy making money, so I haven’t been able to go on dates with my monthly partner. Instead, I’m a loser of a male member who keeps meeting her for three minutes at the station just to hand over the money.
I guess this is what you’d call an easy mark of a papa-katsu guy…
Even if he’s a papa you see regularly, messaging morning and night would be annoying, wouldn’t it?
That said, if you can still meet once in a while and receive at least the minimum allowance, there’s no need to cut him off. I think you can just take your time replying.
Reading questions like this, I often think, “A lot of women are pretty short-tempered.” If you run a business, you sometimes have to deal with people who are a hundred times more annoying than this, so it seems like a waste to get worked up over how often someone messages you or whether you can meet.
If a papa messages a lot but can’t meet, you can simply recognize that’s the kind of papa he is, then look for another papa or focus on your main job. Losing your temper really only hurts you.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I don’t mind keeping in touch via LINE or email, so I’ll continue doing that.
Why not try sending him the days you’re available? If you still can’t meet for a long time, maybe your schedules just aren’t compatible.
If it’s becoming stressful, or if you already have another partner and aren’t in any particular need, I think it’s also perfectly fine not to reply.
Other
He may be expressing something like, “I can’t make time right now, but I don’t want you to end our relationship.”
From a woman who is counting on the allowance’s perspective, though, he may just be an irritating person who offers nothing in return.
I think you should decide whether to cut him off or continue responding based on how you view him—his allowance, personal hygiene, how demanding the relationship is, and so on.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If you can afford to cut things off, then go ahead and do so.
But it’s also possible that he’s genuinely busy during the day and only has a little time in the mornings and evenings, so he simply wants to stay in touch with you.
Other
Lately, there’s someone I’ve been having really steamy chats with on LINE, and we’re both dying to meet, but our schedules just never line up, so we can’t seem to get together.
Being adults is tough.
Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Why not start by simply not replying?