I think there are many women like Aya who have other papas but hide it well and make them genuinely fall for her. Though I do think Aya is exceptionally skilled at pulling it off.
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Why can Win’s girl insist that she has no one else, despite receiving only a small allowance?
How often can you meet someone who isn’t genuinely serious, but is truly the elopement type? How can you tell the difference?
By “the genuine type,” I mean people who are good at making themselves look genuine. They definitely do exist.
If they’re going to date someone, they want to be given plenty of everything, receive the best treatment, and be the one calling the shots. In reality, those are probably the women who are more ambitious than anyone else.
If you’re both happy, I don’t see the problem. I hope you find someone who’s a good match.
Make sure you pay her generously.
—Akari
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I’m Aya, one of the female members.
I don’t think you’ll find anyone here who’s genuinely looking to elope.
I mean, you’re not seriously thinking about running away together, are you?? Your wife comes first, right?? Papa-katsu is already wrong enough, but you really should stop before you completely wreck your wife’s life. No one will be happy.
The best you can do is carry the guilt toward your wife and love the papa-katsu woman in front of you as wholeheartedly as you can. If you start wanting more happiness than that, everything will fall apart.
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The other day, my daughter said, “All my friends say their papa is the person they hate most in the world. Is there something wrong with me?”
I think it depends less on the women and more on you, the person asking the question.
—Paper Airplane
Whenever we travel or go anywhere, people tell us how close my daughter and I seem, so I think the first thing to consider is whether you’re building good relationships with the women around you.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> What percentage of the women you meet do you think are genuinely looking to run away together, rather than just pretending? How can you tell?
I think they’re extremely rare.
Rather than searching for that kind of connection, I think you’d be better off building a good relationship with the woman in front of you.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Maybe you just like putting everything into ever-smaller categories, but if you keep subdividing things, eventually each category will apply to only one person—and it won’t even be a type anymore.
Some people say they want “relationship type B” divided further into regular B, B leaning toward A, and B leaning toward C. But B is B.
Even if we divided it up as requested, it’s obvious they’d next ask for something between regular B and B leaning toward A. No matter how finely you break things down, people’s feelings change depending on the man they meet, so it’s meaningless.
Anyway, getting back to the point: if you’re not genuinely falling in love, then it’s simply papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), where you meet a papa (a male supporter) and receive an allowance.
I think most women can have an ordinary relationship without serious romantic feelings. (Presumably because both sides’ goals are aligned.)
Rather than asking nonsensical questions, I think you should focus on how to spend an enjoyable time with a woman you actually like.
To begin with, even if there were a woman who met all the questioner’s preferences, would any appearance be acceptable as long as her personality was what mattered?
You’re free to live in a fantasy world, but please take a proper look at reality too.
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I’m a losing guy among the male members.
Women who fall for men two or even three decades older than them definitely exist, simply because they’re a sexual minority.
I’m bad at math, so I can’t work it out, but if, say, they make up 0.3% of the total population, you might get a rough idea by calculating the odds of meeting one based on the proportion that ends up on Universe.
Still, instead of spending time thinking about this, the person asking should make their body at least one age bracket younger through weight training, running, spot-removal treatments, cosmetic dentistry, and a bad-breath clinic.
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This is Joe.
I’m answering while I’m in the middle of making breakfast.
I can’t even keep up with “serious,” so being told it’s a “true elopement-type relationship” just leaves me completely baffled. Honestly, I’m baffled that two people with more than a 20-year age gap are living together in the first place.
The rice I cooked in my “Kamado-san” has finished steaming, so I’ll be off.
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