To the men answering: Have you met a woman who makes you feel relaxed and at ease when you're together?
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I used another club in the past as well, so including this one, I've met dozens of women in total. There were girls who were exactly my type looks-wise, and others I thought were genuinely nice, but I never felt soothed or at ease when spending time with them...
Is it strange to want someone who brings me peace of mind in a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) relationship?
Are you stupid? What you’re saying is embarrassing.
That only comes after the other person feels that way—you’re not a child.
—Paper Airplane
You’re supposed to make the other person feel at ease first. Your whole way of thinking is messed up…
“Never felt comforted”? Who do you think you are? Just quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) already.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
An adult relationship (intimate) is a given, but if things are going to continue, feeling at ease together is also fairly important. In fact, about 10% of the women I’ve dated were girls I felt comfortable and relaxed with.
That said, I prioritize novelty. After meeting someone around five times, I gradually get bored and start looking for someone new.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
If I’m not feeling relaxed and cared for myself, I can’t make the other person feel that way either. Don’t be selfish and think, “I’m paying, so I don’t have to comfort them, but they should comfort me.”
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Some papas (male supporters) are incredibly comforting and feel comforted in return, while with those I haven’t known for very long, there’s often a nice sense of tension every time we meet. Each relationship has its own kind of fun.
There are definitely people who can make you feel at ease, aren’t there?!
Young women may need money, but I’m sure they also want to meet a kind and wonderful papa (male supporter). Even in a relationship involving an allowance, I believe it’s possible for both people to comfort and support each other.
Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
I think it also depends on how often you’ve met women who made you feel genuinely at ease in the past.
If you’ve only ever met one such woman, then it means they’re quite rare, and finding someone like that would require meeting a considerable number of women.
So I think it may be worth reconsidering what kind of goal you should set in terms of what you’re looking for.
Personally, I think meeting someone you enjoy spending time with should be enough, but ultimately, that comes down to each individual’s preferences.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I hope I’ve become that kind of presence for my papas.
One papa once told me, “You’ve become like air to me. It feels strange when you’re not around.” I was very grateful to hear that.
Also, whether someone finds it relaxing to be with you may depend largely on your natural qualities.
Some people are simply easy to relax around. Even though I’d only spent a short time with one papa, he told me, “You’re incredibly soothing.” I sometimes think people like that really have it easy.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m sorry.
I’m not doing this to be comforted, nor am I looking for that.
The women I’ve stayed with long-term and grown close to come close to that, though…
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There are a few, though not many. I have my ace and one other.
Rather than putting in the effort only for the women you really like, try giving 100% to every woman so they can feel relaxed and at ease.
If you prepare yourself 100% for every woman and keep providing the best dates possible, I think you’ll find one or two among every few dozen.
—Loser Guy
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