Tips Jan 6, 2022 12:22

Aren’t old men who’ve been members for an unnecessarily long time kind of unpleasant?

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Of course, I’m sure there are also plenty of older guys who’ve been members for a long time and have clean, short-term arrangements with many women. But once they’ve been rejected by girls looking for a Type C relationship, that pretty much tells you everything, doesn’t it? And not just by one woman, but by several. I also get the impression that these old men have no awareness of their own flaws. When they’re rejected, they get angry and blame the women instead. On top of that, far too many seem to mistakenly believe that, because they’re paying, they can evaluate women and choose whoever they want. I think this is also the result of too many odd little rich guys running rampant despite this being a black-listed club. I wish they’d raise the membership fees for black-listed members, more like a salon, and improve the quality of the membership..........
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. Raising the membership fee ≠ raising the quality of the members’ character. It doesn’t seem to be that simple. There’s also a possibility that more self-centered papas will show up, thinking: “I’m paying extra, so…” “I’ve got money, so…” They’re only a portion of the male members, so if you don’t want to end up with one, simply don’t pursue an arrangement with him. On the other hand, how can we weed out women who call papas “old geezers” or “old men,” or who see them as nothing more than ATMs? → Well, you really can’t. There will always be a certain number of them. If you happen to meet one, just don’t continue the relationship and move on. It goes both ways. Enjoy it as if you’re treasure hunting. Sometimes you find treasure, and sometimes you find pebbles. (lol) That’s just how it is. But when there’s treasure to be found, you can’t quit.
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ダイ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. You’re bashing these “blacklisted old men,” but your arrangements aren’t going well either, are they? If things were going well, you could simply cut off the duds, lol. Try calmly rereading the question you wrote. Can’t you see that it’s coming right back at you like a boomerang? I think you should take some time to seriously consider whose fault it is that things aren’t working out.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON. It’s honestly embarrassing and unpleasant that someone who refers to men as “old geezers,” “old men,” or “grandpas” is even part of SALON. If you’re a SALON member, why not just use SALON exclusively? I don’t even know whether you’re in the Black Class, but… talking about the quality of the members? Really—you’re saying that? Instead of blaming others, try being a little more humble. You might find some good men that way!
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I’m honestly getting fed up with questions like this. There may well be some men like that on these sites, but with your attitude— “I’m young and pretty, so of course I deserve to be paid. Don’t be so stingy; pay up.” —you’re really no better than they are. Go earn your own money in the real world before acting so superior. Akari
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since I’m a man, I don’t know the answer to the question itself. I think it’s simplistic to assume that raising the membership fee will change the kind of people who join. I also think there’s something wrong with the attitude of members who talk about the “quality of the members.”
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