Tips Jan 6, 2022 10:46

Why do I want to have sex with my boyfriend over and over, but just want to get it over with as quickly as possible with my papa (a male supporter)? With my boyfriend, I feel like doing anything for him, but I don’t feel that way at all toward my papa. I’ll ask for another round in the morning as part of the service to get him to like me and come back, or be extremely proactive just to finish quickly, but I’m only doing it for the relationship afterward—not because I care about him at all. When I openly act needy and affectionate, every guy gets happy, so it’s actually fun, like a game. With my boyfriend, I genuinely want to have sex with him and ask for it from the heart. I’m doing the same things, but my feelings are completely different.

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Also, I can easily send my papa heart emojis or say “I love you,” but I have a hard time sending those to my boyfriend because I truly mean them with him. Is it because I only think of my papa as money that I can easily say I like him? It’s not like I want to be my papa’s girlfriend or anything. I’d be seriously inconvenienced if he made me his girlfriend.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I believe sex is something both people should enjoy while caring about each other. I understand that being with a boyfriend can add an extra level of pleasure, but wanting to get it over with as quickly as possible when you’re with a papa goes against the proper way to approach sex. Maybe papa-katsu just isn’t for you.
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I’m kind of jealous that you’ve managed to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) properly. If you’re going to spend time together, you both want things to feel comfortable and positive, after all. Akari
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I’m Aya, a female member. Sometimes I wonder if I’m able to be kind to my papa precisely because, deep down, I look down on him to some extent. Men who do papa-katsu are off-putting to me in the first place, and I can’t help feeling that men do have an innate tendency toward violence and a desire to control. But he himself is attractive, he’s supported me throughout my life, and I genuinely love him. I hate that he embodies such contradictory qualities, which makes me want to despise him. And yet, because of that, I also want to calmly see how his life unfolds—so I’ve ended up in this rather strange situation where I can be kind to him.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Seattle here. You’re perfect as a professional papa-katsu girl. I’m jealous—your papa seems to be having such a great time.
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