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Jan 6, 2022 10:46
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Also, I can easily send my papa heart emojis or say “I love you,” but I have a hard time sending those to my boyfriend because I truly mean them with him.
Is it because I only think of my papa as money that I can easily say I like him?
It’s not like I want to be my papa’s girlfriend or anything. I’d be seriously inconvenienced if he made me his girlfriend.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I believe sex is something both people should enjoy while caring about each other.
I understand that being with a boyfriend can add an extra level of pleasure, but wanting to get it over with as quickly as possible when you’re with a papa goes against the proper way to approach sex.
Maybe papa-katsu just isn’t for you.
Other
I’m kind of jealous that you’ve managed to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) properly.
If you’re going to spend time together, you both want things to feel comfortable and positive, after all.
Akari
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m able to be kind to my papa precisely because, deep down, I look down on him to some extent. Men who do papa-katsu are off-putting to me in the first place, and I can’t help feeling that men do have an innate tendency toward violence and a desire to control.
But he himself is attractive, he’s supported me throughout my life, and I genuinely love him. I hate that he embodies such contradictory qualities, which makes me want to despise him. And yet, because of that, I also want to calmly see how his life unfolds—so I’ve ended up in this rather strange situation where I can be kind to him.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Seattle here.
You’re perfect as a professional papa-katsu girl. I’m jealous—your papa seems to be having such a great time.