Tips Jan 4, 2022 13:55

I love my husband, but I’m exhausted from living the same routine every day and constantly having to cut back without being able to indulge, so I’m considering joining.

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When we first got married, living frugally didn’t bother me. But as the same routine continues day after day, I find myself wanting clothes, accessories, beauty gadgets, and so on. I might still be satisfied if I could buy even a few things, but I’ve started to feel unhappy that even those would be considered major expenses. Maintaining my appearance also becomes more expensive as I get older. Would I be unable to join for reasons like these? What kinds of questions are asked during the interview?
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Don’t you have a job? If you’re working, you should be able to set aside a little spending money, and it can also be a nice change of pace. If you already have a job and still want to try it, you might consider doing so at a frequency and for an amount of time that won’t interfere with your home life or work. Marika
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well. > Would I be unable to join for a reason like this? I don’t think there’s anything problematic in your reason. You can join as long as you pass the screening. > What kinds of questions are asked during the interview? The questions vary depending on the interviewer. Some staff might ask things like: “What are your hobbies or interests?” “Piano?” “Wow, you play the piano—that’s impressive.” “What level of pieces can you play?” “Really? You can play something that difficult?” “Do you ever participate in competitions?” “That’s amazing.” I once got scolded by President Kida for asking things like that: “What are you going to do with that information? Men want to know whether they can get intimate or not. They don’t care about piano.” There are people like me who ask about anything from piano to motorcycles, while others probably ask questions much more efficiently. Sometimes we even ask strange questions like: “Do you like H?” In the end, even someone who dislikes it usually won’t say so. There are also risky questions such as: “How much allowance would you like to receive per month?” The problem is that if you answer “¥100,000,” the man may interpret it however it suits him—thinking it means ¥100,000 per meeting, or ¥50,000 twice a month, or ¥20,000 five times a month. Since men tend to interpret things in the way most convenient for them, I sometimes wonder whether answering this question only makes things more complicated. But if it isn’t listed on your profile, men will complain, “Why wasn’t this written down?” So it’s an annoying question that staff may keep pressing you about. At that point, you might as well say: “I’ll leave it up to the man.” They may still ask you to be more specific, but when you meet him, I think it’s perfectly fine to state clearly, “My希望 is ¥〇〇,〇〇〇.” There are probably many other questions as well, but even if you prepare answers in advance, there’s no point if they’re far from the truth. It may be better to simply speak honestly during the interview. That way, both the staff and the men you meet will be more likely to feel that the introduction and the date were worthwhile. In any case, I think it’s best to come in for the interview as soon as possible. For a while, the screening standards had been relaxed, so the chances of passing were fairly high. But the proportion of standard women increased, and people started saying that this was because we had made the screening too lenient. Now there’s talk of going back to allowing more women to fail the interview, as we did before. I imagine the change may already be in effect. Still, it may be psychologically difficult for the staff to switch over immediately, so I suspect many of them may continue passing women under the old standards for the time being.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆ You don’t need a reason. If you want to do it, then do it. Just make absolutely sure your husband never finds out. It would be far worse than a mere confrontation.
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I’m Osaka, a male member. It’s a good thing to want to enrich your life, even just a little. Keep challenging yourself, and good luck.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member who’s pretty much lost. I got into trouble and almost died, so I won’t offer to married women anymore. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your reason for signing up. - You signed up because you’re unhappy with your husband. - You’re satisfied with your husband, but you want money. Neither reason is a problem at all, so why not? I hope you meet a papa (a male supporter) who’s more sexually compatible with you than your husband♪
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t think that reason would prevent you from joining. During the interview, they’ll probably ask why you want to register, as you mentioned, as well as what kind of relationship you’re looking for.
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