He uses up three bath towels when he showers and during our intimate time.
He also dirties the sheets.
He makes no effort to avoid making a mess.
And he casually rubs his thing against them, leaving the sheets sticky and dirty.
Doing all the laundry after he leaves is really difficult.
I’ve said things like, “Could you be a little more considerate?” and “I hate doing laundry!” but he uses everything without hesitation, like he’s at a love hotel.
Should I be more forceful with him?
I think we’ll be seeing each other two or three times this week too (T ^ T)
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Shouldn’t you avoid letting him into your home? Isn’t it scary to open up your private life that much?
But there’s no point in saying that now, so give an excuse like:
“My parents occasionally stop by to check on the place, so let’s meet at a hotel instead.”
That way, you can get him to agree to a hotel.
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Wait—you told him where you live and even let him inside your home?
What would you do if he turned into a stalker?
Didn’t you think it was dangerous?
When you end things, be careful not to anger him. Don’t go out after dark, and watch your back when walking at night.
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I think he’s an absolutely terrible man, but you were also careless to let him use your home without seeing through him.
All you can do is tell him you no longer want him using your home.
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Did he not imagine what it was like, or did he assume you wouldn’t do it at home…?
If your place is in such terrible shape, I think you should just tell him that you only meet at hotels.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well.
> Should I be more forceful?
It doesn’t seem like saying it has had any effect, so from next time on, I think you should insist on meeting at a hotel.
You’ll need to be firm about never letting him into your home.
However, this could also lead to the end of the relationship, so I think you should decide how to handle it only after carefully considering whether you’re okay with breaking things off.
Also, if you look for another man, I think it would be better not to tell him where you live.
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He’s an unbelievably stupid papa.
I’ve never been inside a woman’s home, of course—I’ve never even gone as far as her front door.
That’s a serious breach of manners.
I wouldn’t even enter her home unless she specifically invited me.
A sore loser.
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