I believe it’s true that women cheat when they feel insecure.

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I was surprised that so many people disagreed with the question below. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/10863 By “cheating” here, I mean emotional cheating, not anything physical. When someone feels insecure, they look to other members of the opposite sex and broaden their perspective in order to resolve their worries. Isn’t that what it means? Or am I still misunderstanding it? In ordinary romantic relationships, I think it’s quite common for someone to find another good partner while still in the current relationship and then break up. I don’t think that’s necessarily cheating; rather, it’s the result of the couple gradually losing consideration for each other—or of a man letting his guard down and losing the woman. But in a dating club, it becomes: Feeling insecure = your income may be about to dry up = looking for another papa (and having sex with other papas). So if a man has exclusive rights through a monthly arrangement or something similar, does he then decide, “She cheated on me, so I’m done with her”? If you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) but don’t like the idea of her having sex with other men, then shouldn’t you try to keep her from straying by increasing her allowance before she cheats...? You’re looking at other women whenever you get the chance too, after all (lol).

Answer 1

Various opinions have been expressed, and there’s nothing wrong with elaborating on your own viewpoint. But ultimately, they’re just opinions from different perspectives. As for cheating—or having your attention turn to someone else—it’s probably because something is lacking in various ways. Akari

Answer 2

I’m a male member who’s basically lost out. My view is exactly the same as the questioner’s, and that’s what I said in my previous answer. I’m not possessive, so I honestly don’t care who my monthly partner meets or gets intimate with. That said, if either of us has other people on the side, it’s only natural that opportunities for things to slip will arise. As for the allowance, I think I’m already giving her more than enough, but I’m still considering increasing it further. However, raising the allowance isn’t to prevent cheating—it’s simply me indulging my own feelings.

Answer 3

I’m Aya, a female member. I think the reason the first question received so many different opinions is that the definitions of “feeling anxious” and “cheating” were vague, and there weren’t any specific details. Personally, I think it’s less about feeling anxious and more about feeling lonely—or, more precisely, feeling unfulfilled. That said, some people may describe all of that simply as “feeling anxious.” >In the case of a man who has exclusive arrangements, such as a monthly arrangement, would he decide to cut ties with her because she cheated? As for that, I think my papa (a male supporter) probably would. Although he doesn’t seem to think there’s much chance of me cheating…

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