I feel like the woman I see regularly has been losing interest in me lately.
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Her replies have been slower than before, and she’s started taking a shower right after we’re intimate. She used to send messages thanking me each time, saying things like, “I had a great time” or “I’m looking forward to seeing you next time,” but recently all she says is, “Thank you very much!”
The day before yesterday, I sent her a New Year’s greeting saying, “Happy New Year! Let’s visit lots of different places together again this year. I look forward to your continued support!” But all she replied was a greeting and, “I hope we both have a wonderful year!”
Do you think she’s planning to end things with me? Or am I overthinking it?
We may see each other less often than some other couples, but we’ve been seeing each other for a year and a half, and I can’t think of anything in particular that would have caused her to want to end things.
You’re overthinking it.
It’s not that you’re thinking, “I’m planning to end things.” It’s simply a relationship where you don’t meet often, so you wouldn’t really care if it ended at any time. To begin with…
But if nothing happens, there’s no reason to break things off. So I think you can keep it going as long as you don’t overthink it or make it feel like a burden.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Looking at it positively, perhaps she’s simply become comfortable enough that she no longer feels the need to be so eager. But if this change only happened after a year and a half, isn’t that a little too late? Maybe she’s found someone else and has started thinking it would be okay to part ways.
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I’m BB7.
She sounds pretty distant.
I don’t know whether she found another papa (a male supporter) or simply lost interest, but unfortunately, I think she no longer cares about you.
It’s best to move on.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If anything, I’m even more affectionate with my papa now than I was a few years ago, and I’ve also learned to treat him with greater courtesy. Even though we’ve gotten comfortable with each other, I never slack off on replying or let my LINE messages become curt.
So I think your partner has probably started losing interest. It’s only natural that you can’t think of any particular reason. Sometimes they just develop a vague dislike of everything about you… Relationships between men and women can be cruel.
If you keep showering someone who’s lost interest in you with affection, they’ll only find it annoying, so I think it’s better to keep a reasonable distance.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
You haven’t included your other exchanges, and the New Year’s greeting is probably only an excerpt, so it’s hard to say for sure.
That said, if you’ve started to feel this way, your instincts may be right.
Even when there’s nothing in particular that comes to mind, women sometimes put up with things for a long time.
When their patience finally runs out, they may suddenly stop responding, and the relationship comes to an end.
If you truly can’t think of anything, I assume you’ve been kind to her and given her gifts, so the only other thing you could really do is increase her allowance.
Of course, if she’s already close to her limit, increasing the allowance may not be enough to repair the relationship.
But if she was putting up with things mainly because of the amount of the allowance, there’s a chance things could return to normal.
If you don’t want to continue seeing her unless you increase the allowance, you could simply wait and see whether the relationship ends as it is.
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