Tips Jan 3, 2022 20:07

I’m a male member. It’s a hassle having to withdraw cash so often for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I can’t exactly carry a million yen around in my wallet, either. Does anyone have any good workarounds?

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紙ひこうき
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Find a way to always carry around 100 or more. —Paper Airplane My mentor’s senior used to wear a belt that could hold a folded stack of 100. Another option is to buy her a wallet on the first day of the date, put a stack of 100 or 200 in it, and have her keep it for you. So far, not a single woman has taken off on me.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, Basil. It’s a hassle to withdraw cash frequently, so I withdraw a larger amount at once, put five bills in each of several envelopes, and keep them in my desk. I take one envelope with me for each date. When the allowance varies, I top it up from my wallet to make up the difference.
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I’m Aya, a female member. Convenience-store ATM
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m columnist writer Fuu. Really? There are ATMs everywhere, so I don’t find it that much of a hassle. Just a thought, but if the woman agrees, why not give her the allowance via PayPay? - The person asking the question links their bank account to the app so they can top up their PayPay balance anytime. - The woman registers for the PayPay app and opens a PayPay Bank account. Since transferring from PayPay to PayPay Bank is free when cashing out, she can withdraw the money from a convenience-store ATM. Check the PayPay website for details. I wouldn’t do the above myself, though.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, and I’m the one losing out here. Are you giving them around ¥30,000 each time? I have 11 monthly arrangements and consider myself a generous (well-paying) papa, but I’ve never had that kind of problem. These days, you can withdraw money at a convenience store, so I’ve never found it particularly inconvenient. Or do you live somewhere so rural that there aren’t even any convenience stores? By the way, I’ve prepaid about three adult relationship dates’ worth of allowance for nearly half of my monthly arrangements. Why not do the same if you’re the one asking the question? I’ve never had anyone disappear after being paid in advance.
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He gave me 100 upfront all at once. Marika
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I keep a separate wallet for allowance money, apart from my everyday wallet.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer too. I think you can use a card for anything other than the allowance, so you could just pay by card. As for the allowance, you could give her a card and tell her to use it freely, so you wouldn’t have to withdraw cash. Is that what you meant?
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