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Jan 3, 2022 17:41
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Yeah, even I, Fuu, can’t make any sense of that theory.
If someone is about to break up and starts looking for—or lining up—their next potential partner, people of any gender might do that. But whether you’d call it cheating is another question.
Maybe there’s no such theory in the first place?
Other
I’m BB7.
If not having money from a man makes you feel insecure, it’s understandable that you might look for someone else.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I feel that cheating is often less about anxiety and more about feeling lonely or not getting enough excitement. By “excitement,” I mean everything that comes from being with that man, including the experiences and financial benefits.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase☆
Do people cheat when they feel insecure?
Could that just be the case among the people around you?
That’s the first time I’ve heard that.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If the allowance and frequency of seeing each other weren’t what I wanted, I’d probably start looking again right away.
Paper Airplane
Other
Cheating?
I don’t think you’re her main partner—or even her second choice.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t think it would really be called cheating.
If she’s worried about her allowance or feels like you’re seeing several other women, she may decide to look for another, more financially reliable papa (a male supporter).
Akari
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Something that isn’t logically sound can’t really be called a theory. At best, it’s just a rambling story.
It’s only natural that you wouldn’t understand it.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing male member.
This is the first time I’ve heard of “a woman cheating in papa-katsu.”
Could “having two or more papas” be what people call “cheating” in papa-katsu these days?
If your allowance is low, it’s perfectly normal for a woman to feel insecure and look for a second papa.