Tips Dec 30, 2021 20:55

Why does giving money to support a hardworking woman have to involve physical intimacy? Clubs and men say they like women with ambition, but that’s just a pretty story. In reality, they simply prefer women whose looks they’re attracted to and with whom they’re sexually compatible, right?

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Are there any papa (male supporters) at these clubs who are like the old-fashioned “long-legged uncle” who supports young women? Have you ever met one? Lately, I’ve really been feeling that the Japan Student Services Organization is the one supporting my student life the most. (I receive a scholarship that doesn’t have to be repaid.)
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I’m Aya, a female member. Papas want to support women they want to have sex with—they’re not looking to support just any girl who’s short on money. If you don’t understand the difference between what people really think and what they say on the surface, you’ll have a hard time in society too.
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I'm Nana Ayase☆ That's not how it works. It's not that men want to pay women who are working hard—the woman has to be their type and make an effort, which is what makes them want to pay her. You're in college and you still don't understand that?
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I’m BB7. A lot of women may look mature, but their mindset is still at an elementary or middle school level, so I don’t make offers to female college students. Women in their 30s and up are still the best.
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You know far too little about the real world, and you’re far too unaware of your own lack of ability and worth. Akari
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Fuu
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. That “free of charge” theory... By that logic, we’d have to give money to everyone who’s struggling and eager to improve themselves. I find the theory hard to accept. There has to be some kind of compensation and sacrifice—supply and demand. If the person paying doesn’t get any benefit, no one would pay in the first place, so the arrangement wouldn’t work. Very few people give money with no strings attached—scholarships and government subsidies, for example. If it’s an individual, wouldn’t they only be able to go as far as helping their own family?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Isn’t it because you want to support women who are working hard and putting themselves out there for you?
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I’m getting tired of seeing this question, too. Have young Japanese women really gotten that much dumber, or are they just pretending to be clueless and asking? Well, it’s probably the latter. Marika
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I have adopted children all over the world—adopted children I’ve never even met, let alone had a physical relationship with. I occasionally receive letters from them. The women I meet through dating clubs are all beautifully balanced in both looks and personality, so it’s hard to stand out. That’s why, as the final deciding factor, I find myself wanting to support women who are: “Awkward, but doing their very best to get through life.” —Loser Guy
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too. There’s nothing wrong with a woman supporting a man who’s working hard, you know? Why don’t you support him?
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