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My girlfriend, a music student, told me she wants to study abroad once COVID is over. She seems to want me to provide around ¥20 million, but is that a reasonable amount? She says the instrument would cost another ¥3 million or so. I want to do as much as I can for her.

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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ I know a male member who got into trouble over something like this. lol It wasn’t exactly a lie… it seems she hid the fact that she hadn’t passed. Though this may be a different case....
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I’m BB7. My guess is that he’ll stop responding after that.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON. My field isn’t music, but I also studied abroad in my area of expertise, so I understand very well how expensive it can be. There’s no doubt about that. Still, I do wonder whether you should really have the man you’re dating cover those expenses. Wouldn’t families involved in the arts generally pay for it themselves? And even if her family didn’t pay, wouldn’t her parents find it strange and wonder where she got that large amount of money? I understand that you want to trust her, and if you’re genuinely happy to provide the money, then I suppose that’s fine… Still, there really are some remarkable women out there! I’m amazed.
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Whoa. So she takes 20 million yen and disappears, huh? If she can fool him with this, you’ve got to hand it to her. Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member. Is it a prestigious school like Juilliard? If so, tuition is just under $50,000 a year, so it would come to over ¥20 million for four years. That said, the acceptance rate is only 7–8%, so I’m not saying I doubt her, but please make sure the acceptance letter is genuine. Sorry. If she’s a woman you feel is worth spending ¥20 million on, then I think you should give it to her.
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I’m in Seattle. If you’re willing to fill out the marriage registration, I’ll give you about that much. If you’re not someone who wants to go that far, I can only see this ending badly. You might even win the Papa-katsu Summit’s “saddest story” contest, like Osaka-san. Prize: ¥10,000.
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¥20 million… I mean, arts-related expenses can really add up, but even so, that’s quite a sum. I guess it depends on how you feel about it. Akari
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I’m Kazu, a male member. The cost can vary a lot depending on the instrument, where you go, and what you do. For now, I’d say the instrument itself sounds incredibly cheap. If you really want to do everything you can for her, there’s no need to ask whether it’s reasonable or not.
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