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Dec 28, 2021 13:12
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Is four or five hours too long—or too short?
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Four or five hours might be a bit long…
I usually keep it to around three or four hours, including the hotel.
But more important than how long it was is what kind of time you spent together, don’t you think?
Other
I’m BB7.
Isn’t four to five hours pretty standard?
I’ve never really paid much attention to the time. It depends on the plans and mood of both people that day.
Sometimes we part ways after two hours, sometimes we spend the night. We’ve even gone on two-night trips. The allowance is always the same.
If a woman thinks in terms of an hourly rate, I say goodbye—I’m not interested in continuing with her.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s in Seattle.
Two and a half hours in total.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
For dinner only, it’s around 2.3 to 8 hours, and the allowance stays the same. The average is about 4.5 hours.
For dinner plus a hotel, it’s around 3.4 to 13 hours, and the allowance doesn’t change based on the length of time either. The average is about 5.6 hours.
If you meet for 4.5 hours, you’ll usually be told, “That went by so fast—the time just flew by,” right? I’m putting in a lot of effort to be considerate, so I start wanting to take a break around then… But the girls who make me want to be that considerate are also the ones I’m happiest to spend time with.
Paper Airplane
Other
For dinner plus a room, with parting ways the same day: 5–6 hours.
For golf plus a room, wrapping up in the evening: 10 hours.
Both of these papas are people I absolutely adore.
There are various arrangements, such as:
- Lunch plus a room
- Going straight by car to a spacious, clean love hotel outside the city
- A meal plus staying overnight
That said, I think 4–5 hours for a meal plus a room is fairly standard.
Of course, younger PJ girls who prefer shorter dates because they calculate everything by the hour may have completely different opinions, so please keep that in mind.
Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
On adult relationship (intimate) days, it’s usually about three hours including dinner. With my ideal supporter, it’s a maximum of two and a half hours including dinner…
On dinner-only (no intimacy) days, it’s two hours.
Honestly, I’d love to spend about four hours together, but I put on a gentlemanly act and tough it out (tears).
A defeated man
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
Sometimes it’s around four hours, and other times it’s 24 hours.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I think ¥40,000–¥50,000 total for two dinners and two hotel dates is pretty standard.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member named Basil.
It depends on the meal.
If it’s a set course, it can sometimes take around two hours.
The time spent in the room varies, but it’s usually just under two hours.
In my case, I generally use four hours as a guideline for the first meeting and subsequent dates, so it rarely exceeds that.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It depends on the woman and the day.
I think four hours is standard, so five hours feels a little long.