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Dec 27, 2021 18:31
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If so, why do you think that is?
When you think about it, whether you remain in their memory or not has absolutely nothing to do with your life afterward, does it?
There’s no way to even know for sure.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one as well.
Questions that feel like something out of an evening of philosophy are a bit much for me, but—
> When you think about it, whether you remain in people’s memories or not has absolutely nothing to do with you afterward, does it?
If we put it that way, then after you die, it really makes no difference whether you remain in other people’s memories or not.
Besides, the people who know you will eventually pass away too, so you’ll probably disappear from the memories of most people.
Those who cause major historical events or accomplish great things may leave their names in history, but even then, I feel that’s different from actually remaining in people’s memories.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
Of course, I hope I’ll remain a fond memory for you. If we’re lucky enough to meet and spend time together, I want you to feel that you’re glad we did. That’s the kind of woman I aspire to be.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I think what stays with both men and women is largely how long they spent seeing each other.
As you said, there’s no way to verify someone else’s memories, but I don’t want to leave them with unpleasant memories, so I make sure not to do anything they dislike.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Well, that’s for the other person to decide.
You’re a woman, right? Women don’t think about men who are completely in their past like that. Probably not even ex-boyfriends, and besides, I wasn’t even her boyfriend.
That said, there have been cases where a woman and I ended an affair or a relationship but remained friends afterward. So even if those situations weren’t exactly good, I guess they weren’t bad either.
As for the women who are completely out of my life, I don’t think they’ve ever thought of me even once. If you’re going to think of me, just contact me and come see me. That’s what I want to say, lol.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’ve never considered letting things fade away naturally. I’m not sure what form it will take yet, but even after we stop seeing each other, I’d like us to remain like an older sister and her grandpa.
I’d be happy if the various experiences and things she learned through our relationship had influenced her way of thinking in some way.
I hope she can become more confident in herself…
Though I’m not getting any younger myself(笑)
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I sincerely hope you meet a wonderful papa (a male supporter)—someone so great that you can forget all about me in no time.
That’s why, when I have no choice but to let a woman go, I offer concrete aftercare: I introduce her to The Salon, advise her on how to write her profile, and share her good qualities with the club so she can receive more offers. I’m always causing trouble for my contact at Universe Club, but I want to leave things as cleanly as possible.
Hmm… Am I using that proverb wrong?
—A losing man
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Even after things naturally fade out, I want to remain a good memory in her heart. I always try to act in a way that makes me a good partner for women, so I believe that’s how things will turn out.