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Why do wealthier papas tend not to spend money on women?

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My papa spends a lot on himself, dressing head-to-toe in high-end designer brands whenever new collections come out. He earns over 50 million yen a year.
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だて◎ゆめ
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member. Judging only from your question, you seem to be a young woman, so perhaps your papa is simply worried that you might waste the money. Quite a few people have had their lives derailed by money... You tend to become more worried about things as you get older.
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I’m Ayase Nana ♡ To a papa (a male supporter), don’t you think a woman is probably only about tenth on his list of priorities? Family and work are usually in the top three, I’d say. Do you understand what I mean? They won’t spend money on someone they consider low-level, and once they no longer need you, they can cut you off at any time.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office. I don’t think every wealthy papa (male supporter) refuses to spend money on women. It just happens that when you meet someone who has money but won’t spend any on you—or offers only a low allowance—it tends to stick in your memory. People have different priorities when it comes to spending their money. There are all kinds of people out there, so I think you should date the ones who seem like a good fit for you.
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I’m Aya, a female member. Is your papa employed somewhere? I think salaried employees tend to spend less than business owners. They can’t expense their drinks, and if they’re supporting a family, they usually don’t have much disposable income. My papa also said that salaried employees are “the worst value for money.” When he thinks about it in terms of his hourly rate, it apparently just isn’t worth it.
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I’m BB7. That’s just that particular man’s outlook. Not every man earning 50 million yen a year is like that, and being wealthy doesn’t mean they won’t spend money. A lot of people on this forum seem to generalize from individual cases and complain about it. It simply means your papa (a male supporter) is like that.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Even when I wasn’t wealthy, I used to treat my juniors and female friends all the time. My seniors treated me, so I thought that was just how things worked. Now that I’m wealthy, I give away even more money. Generous people are generous from a young age, and stingy people are stingy from the start. It’s almost like a personality trait. By the way, if the papa’s annual income is ¥50 million, his take-home pay is probably around ¥30 million, which is less than I spend on papa-katsu in a year. In other words, he isn’t that wealthy. Once you factor in money for his wife, his children’s education, loans, and so on, he can’t really be a generous (well-paying) papa. Next time, try to find a papa with ¥50 million in take-home pay. That would mean an annual income of around ¥100 million. — A Loser Guy
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. When you’ve only recently started earning well, it can be exhilarating to splash money around, but after a while, you may naturally move on from that phase. It’s only natural to buy your own clothes with your own earnings. A papa (a male supporter) should buy whatever clothes he personally likes. I think you should buy your own clothes, too.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I’d probably use it if I decided it was worth the money. It means your appeal is being overshadowed by the luxury brand.
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