Have you ever broken up with someone you were seeing because of Christmas?
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This winter, I cut ties with one of the women I was seeing.
I messaged three women: “If there’s anything you’d like for Christmas, just tell me honestly. Don’t worry about the price.”
A: A Louis Vuitton Capucines (around ¥800,000)
B: A Van Cleef & Arpels necklace (around ¥3.5 million)
C: Refused a present, saying she felt bad accepting one from me
Only C stubbornly refused the gift, so I cut ties with her. I like honest people and dislike liars.
I’d love to hear about your experiences as well.
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
There’s no particular reason I cut someone off. It all depends on my mood at the time.
Of course, I get cut off too.
“I hate liars.” But every woman on here is lying at least a little, lol.
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Hmm… honestly, I was a little taken aback.
I wonder if you usually offer top-tier allowances and escorting… It must mean she felt confident enough to name that price.
Maybe C felt especially valued and well taken care of.
The fact that she was so adamant… perhaps she felt pressured by you.
If so… that’s unfortunate.
I’ve never had things end because of an event.
Akari
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I also like honest people and dislike liars, but perhaps you don’t actually dislike liars—you prefer women who are true to their desires.
It’s unclear what evidence there is that Woman C is a liar.
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I said the same thing to my ace before Christmas.
As a result, she told me she wanted a 30,000-yen wallet.
She pulls this move on me all the time, and before I knew it, I was practically offering her a lifetime arrangement.
A loser.
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There are all kinds of reasons for a breakup, so I think that’s fine. But if the questioner’s real feeling was simply, “I don’t need your true feelings,” then they’re just a complete idiot.
Men become increasingly self-centered when they have money, and women when they’re cute or beautiful, so you need to be careful.
It’s a fairly decent question as a cautionary example.
Marika
I forgot to mention my own experience, but I’ve never broken up with anyone because of an event like Christmas or a birthday.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I’ve never broken up with someone over Christmas.
When someone says, “Tell me what you want—don’t worry about the price,” it does create the impression that you’re expected to ask for something. Too bad for C.
By the way, this year, when my papa asked what I wanted for Christmas and my birthday, I told him I wanted a watch from Rakuten that cost ¥30,000, but he turned me down.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
Maybe C genuinely admired you so much that she was happy with just the thought behind it?!
Would it be okay if I asked in her place? lol
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I’m Fuu, the columnist.
Since Fuu doesn’t give presents, if you want to keep things going, the girl from C is your only option.
If she’s refusing that stubbornly, it probably isn’t a lie.
I feel bad for Fuu—I almost wish you’d introduce the girl from C to him.
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