Does having a boyfriend usually mean seeing your papa less often—or more often?

A few months ago, the woman I’ve been seeing for several years—usually staying overnight about twice a month under a monthly arrangement—told me she had gotten a boyfriend. She said that right after getting a boyfriend, she’d have fewer opportunities to see me and staying overnight would become difficult. However, just a week later, we went on an overnight trip, and for the past few months we’ve been staying overnight almost every week. Sometimes we see each other as many as five days a week. She always initiates it. She’s even told me things like, “My boyfriend asked me out to dinner, but I turned him down,” so we’ve actually been seeing each other more often. Since we have a monthly arrangement, seeing each other more often doesn’t give her any additional financial benefit, and her boyfriend pays for their dates as well. They’re no longer semi-cohabiting, but she told me in detail how they used to have sex almost every day and how compatible they were, practically gushing about him. She even records herself having sex with her boyfriend and sends it to me because she wants to turn me on. Lately, though, during sex with me, she’s started saying things like, “I’m finally going to get it,” or “That’s it! That’s it!” in the middle of it. We were already sexually compatible, so I wonder if she just wants to indulge herself occasionally. I’m happy that she’s seeing me more often even though she has a boyfriend, but I’m a little puzzled because I assumed people normally see their papa less often in that situation.