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Dec 21, 2021 20:48
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m seeing several women, but I have no desire to have unprotected sex with them.
If a woman allows other men to finish inside her, I’ll end things with her.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
I think it’s possible for the relationship to continue for a longer period, and the frequency may increase at first.
> Does the allowance go up?
It won’t go up unless you bring it up yourself. Even after you’ve been seeing each other several times, it can be difficult to ask, so when he says he’d like to take things further, you’ll probably need to negotiate by giving a reason, such as having financial difficulties or spending a lot on beauty treatments, and saying something like, “Could you give me a little more allowance?”
Also, I don’t think you should say something like, “I’ll even agree to something more intimate, so please give me more allowance.”
I think many men dislike being approached that way.
It would be better to frame it as agreeing because you like him. As for wanting more allowance, give other reasons, such as having various financial difficulties.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
As we meet more frequently and the relationship continues longer, the pay-per-meeting allowance stays the same, but I may start giving bonuses and things like that.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I offer a fairly generous allowance, but I sometimes wonder if the women are forcing themselves to continue. Most arrangements are short-lived, and they often end things with me.