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Dec 20, 2021 22:02
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
In the club and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) world, there are plenty of young women, so without some other added value, the cold truth is that being “young” alone doesn’t make someone valuable.
The women who get chosen are usually:
“Young” + “good-looking” + “good-natured”
Women who aren’t young are chosen by their papas because they have other advantages, so I don’t see much value in being “young” alone.
I wouldn’t choose someone who’s “young” + “has a bad personality,” either（笑）
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s one of the losers.
I think there are plenty of male members who place value on nothing but “youth.”
At the same time, there are also many people who value qualities other than youth, like the respondents here.
I think you’ll be satisfied if you keep a papa (a male supporter) who values youth, so good luck with the papa lottery.
Personally, I’m currently seeking out refined, innocent A-types and placing a high value on them.
A-type women won’t sleep with a man just for money, so they judge every aspect of your ability as a man. In that situation, being asked by an A-type woman to pursue an adult relationship (intimate) gives you an indescribable sense of achievement.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ☆
Kazu, you’re the best lol (*^^*)
Who said being young makes you superior?
Other
If your only value is your youth, then your worth is declining day by day, isn’t it?
In that case, I suppose it’s understandable that you feel like spewing venom.
How much longer do you think people will fawn over you?
If you don’t develop qualities beyond your youth, you really will have nothing left by the time you reach your late twenties or early thirties.
Marika
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
If I don’t keep improving my value—not just my looks, which tend to fade with age, but also who I am on the inside—I’ll end up becoming a hollow woman whose allowance only decreases as she gets older.
I don’t want that to happen, so I’m willing to go through various hardships and grow as a person.
Actually, I never liked being fawned over just because I was young. When I was 20, there was an older man who worshipped me like a goddess simply because I was young. He kept smiling beside me the whole time, saying, “You’re lucky to be young.” I remember feeling so uncomfortable that I never wanted to see him again.
When someone doesn’t see who I am on the inside, it feels like they only want my body, and it makes me want to throw up. I wonder if the person asking this question feels differently.
Other
Things are getting pretty heated, huh?
With the New Year approaching, are you starting to hate yourself for being held by older men left and right just because you want to indulge a little?
Or are you telling yourself, “I’m young, so of course I have value—and of course I should be getting paid for it!”?
Or did you realize that even the papa you thought had the upper hand is treating you like a backup option, and now you’re letting all that bitterness out?
Of course you shine just by being young.
It’s a wonderful, invincible time of life.
It will never come again.
So I’d actually like to ask you: are you really enjoying being in a place like this during that precious time?
Akari
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Aaaand there it is 😂
Youngwwww womeeeeen 😂
I don’t see any inherent value in being young, so I don’t get it.
If youth has value, then newborn baby girls would be the ultimate, right?
Babbuuu.
Other
I’m Osaka, a male member.
Hii＼(^o^)／ Yes, I’m doing papa-katsu!