I’m Fuu, a column writer.
In my first year, I made offers like a randy monkey—lots of them. From the following year onward, the number of offers decreased year by year, because I became settled with my monthly arrangements.
Every now and then, I’ll make an offer to someone who matches my preferred type based on her profile. But when I compare them with my monthly partners, the difference in satisfaction is like night and day. In the end, I usually find myself wanting to value my regular partners more.
Recently, my monthly partners have been so great that I don’t even find myself getting distracted by other profiles anymore.
If I ever part ways with one of my monthly partners, I’ll start making offers again to find a new monthly arrangement. I imagine it would take a considerable number of offers to find someone equal to or better than my current partner...
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I’m in Seattle.
This is my third year, and the number of people I see has dropped dramatically—there are only a handful now.
It’s hard to find anyone who surpasses the people I used to see.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I’m in my fifth year, and this year I received more regular offers than ever before. Even though I always have around three to five women I see regularly, I still find myself tempted by others.
I don’t think I’ll be able to stop anytime soon, so I’m aiming for a hundred.
P.S. I counted this year’s new offers and there were 24 people. I’m honestly appalled at myself.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think the number of offers decreases from the first year to the second, but I’m not sure whether it continues to decrease every year after that.
In the first year, you’re probably eager to make lots of offers and meet different women. By the second year, though, you may already have someone you’re seeing, so you’re less likely to keep looking for new women.
I’d rather not give the exact number of offers, but in my case, the ratio was roughly 10:1:2 for July–December last year, January–June this year, and July–December this year.
The main reasons the second half of this year increased compared with the first half were that I joined other dating clubs and that some of my relationships came to an end.
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