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Dec 16, 2021 17:22
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I’ve met several, but I get the impression that many either work temp jobs or claim to be working when they don’t seem to be.
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
The people I have monthly arrangements with all have regular jobs.
The people Fuu approaches seem to be almost exactly as described in their profiles.
What information is that impression based on?
How many people did you approach, and how many responded?
Was it through an app?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Isn’t it often the case that you’re the one making offers to women like that?
I only continue seeing women who have legitimate daytime jobs.
Other
Of course I work.
Marika
Also, these days, I think temp work should count as having a proper job too, since it’s unfair to look down on it.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think relying solely on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a sensible way to manage risk, so I have a regular job as well. I often ask my papas for advice, too.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I have a proper job!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I make offers based on a woman’s profession, and since I hear quite a bit about the industry she works in, I’m confident that the women I see really do work in those fields.
Among the women I’ve met more than a few times, none have lied about their profession.
Adding this after reading Marika’s answer:
I agree that temp agency work should count as having a legitimate job. Otherwise, we’d have to say that women who work at bank counters don’t have legitimate jobs either.