I’m a former female member who left after feeling there was no longer any demand for me in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market.
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Do papas ever think about the women they used to see? Like, “She was so kind,” or “I wish I’d done more for her.”
I’d be happy if, at some point in their long lives, a papa remembered me, even just for a moment.
Or do they eventually forget?
I’m in Seattle.
Men tend to hold on to things stubbornly, you know. This year, I finally threw out the photo album from a date with my ex-wife 20 years ago.
Women move on faster than men, right?
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Even if I remember them, I don’t usually think about them in everyday life.
The woman I’m currently seeing is important to me, after all.
But if someone I haven’t heard from in a long time gets in touch, it brings back memories of when we were together, and I find myself thinking, “I’d like to see her again sometime,” haha.
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I’m BB7.
I remember you.
Especially women like you, the person who asked the question.
I may have met some of the women who come here to vent and trash-talk others once or twice, but I deliberately erase people like that from my memory so I don’t remember them—as a dark chapter in my past.
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I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Men are surprisingly sentimental, so most of them probably remember.
In fact, if you reached out, he might even say, “Should we get back together?”
That said, it probably depends on how you broke up. If things ended badly, there’s a chance he’s erased you from his memory.
I think it really comes down to whether you parted on good terms.
Though I didn’t think many women would want an ex to remember them. Did most of your breakups leave you with lingering feelings?
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