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Dec 14, 2021 16:48
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I’m a BB7.
This question comes up regularly, but I think you should just ask the man directly.
Maybe he’s offering 3 because he doesn’t find you attractive, or maybe 3 is simply his standard rate.
I’m over these kinds of questions.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
It’s not that you lack appeal; that man is simply looking for a woman willing to enter into an arrangement for 30,000 yen.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana☆
A lot of men offer 30,000 yen. I assumed they were lowballing me because I’m a mature woman, but maybe they say that to younger women too?
Questioner, please at least tell us the age range you’re asking about—the answer would be completely different depending on it.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
No, that’s not it. Actually, I’m not sure.
There is a possibility that he saw you and tried to take advantage of the situation.
However, most of them are papas whose usual style is an adult relationship (intimate) for 30,000 yen, so that’s why I say 30,000 yen.
I recommend trying it once to see whether an adult relationship (intimate) for 30,000 yen feels worth it for you.
I say this because quite a few women get so fixated on the allowance that they turn it down and end up without a papa.
Even if it’s 30,000 yen—think about it. That’s 30,000 yen for four hours, you know? There’s nothing wrong with a down-to-earth papa-katsu style. At least at Uniba. It’s not like you’re bragging to other people about how much allowance you get.
If you want a better allowance or more than the standard amount, it may be less stressful to move up a rank or register with another club. Though I can’t guarantee what the relationship itself will be like.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think there’s any connection between the allowance a man offers and how attractive the woman is. Besides, what each man finds attractive will differ from person to person.
Aya once put it well: “I think the allowance is the price a man puts on his own sexual desire.”
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/7983
There are parts of that I see a little differently, but overall, I think that’s pretty much how it is.
So, I don’t think there’s any connection between the allowance a man offers and the woman’s attractiveness.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who’s always on the losing end.
The person asking the question has done nothing wrong.
That papa is simply an asshole.
At Universe Club, the going rate for an adult relationship (intimate) is 6↑↑↑.
It’s 7↑↑↑ in Nagoya, and I pay 10↑↑↑.
No matter what the reason, paying women such a low allowance is just too cruel.
That’s one thing I absolutely won’t compromise on.
It’s fair trade.
Too many women are entering papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), throwing supply and demand out of balance. But that doesn’t justify lowering the allowance and pressuring them to agree. I firmly say, “No way.”
Even if you want to sleep with a beautiful woman for 5 or less, it’s your responsibility to prepare at least as thoroughly as I do and provide her with the best possible date.
“You’re forcing your values on others!”
People can say that all they want. I’ll keep pushing them. I will never compromise.