Do these scumbags who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) while making their wives work part-time or giving them only a few hundred thousand yen a month feel no guilt?
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My father was also a scumbag who cheated constantly, but he gave my mother one million yen a month. She said it wasn’t enough, and my father spent several times that amount on having fun, though.
When I hear papas say things like, “I only give my wife 200,000 yen a month for living expenses,” or “My wife works part-time at an udon restaurant,” I just think, “Don’t make her do that.” I bet men like that have never even given their wives a Birkin bag as a gift. Do all of you properly give your wives Birkins, luxury cars, clothes, jewelry, and so on for your wedding anniversaries—or occasionally as an apology for cheating? If you can’t even do those things for your wife, the woman who’s supposed to be your priority, then please don’t do papa-katsu. Maybe that’s not possible at clubs where most of the men earn around 10–30 million yen a year. Either way, the moment a man can’t spend the most money on his wife, he’s already failed as a man, right?
I’m BB7.
My wife has absolutely no interest in Birkins, foreign cars, or jewelry. She says she only needs the bare minimum of money and hardly spends any of it. She calls those things pointless.
What’s wrong with working part-time at an udon restaurant?
My wife works part-time three days a week at a certain shopping center, and she seems to genuinely enjoy it.
Do you really think showering my wife with unlimited money would make her happy?
Mom, were you happy receiving a million yen a month?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
You really grew up in a difficult family situation.
My papas seem to give about that much as well. Some say they give 100 or more a month, while others say that all the money from the company registered in their wife’s name goes to their wife.
I sometimes think that’s wonderful—and that being devoted to your wife is closely tied to having a strong sense of responsibility. But I’m sure there are people and times when they don’t really want to talk about things like that, so I don’t pry too much.
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It’s Joe.
I don’t really have any objections. Since I’m the “little gold bug” the questioner mentioned, paying 100,000 yen a month would be difficult. But there’s no doubt I’ve spent—and continue to spend—the most money on my wife, so I don’t feel guilty. It probably doesn’t really count as an excuse, though.
The most expensive “gift” I’ve given her is a private studio just for my wife, who’s an unsuccessful painter. It cost eight figures. I finally finished paying off the mortgage last year (tears).
For our anniversary, I give her a small gift and take her out to dinner. Her car is a foreign import, too. Come to think of it, maybe I really am a devoted husband.
No, that’s not quite right after all. Sorry for getting carried away.
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