I feel like the papas earning tens of millions of yen a year are the ones who brag the most about being rich. They’re always showing off about their trips and meals. Yet their allowance is only 10,000 yen for dinner, or they say things like, “Adult relationship, a flat 50,000 (up to 80,000),” lol.
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I really couldn’t care less about stories from papas who brag (my parents have been taking me abroad to various countries since I was little), so I never last with that kind of papa. The two papas I’m currently seeing both earn over 100 million yen a year, but they never brag at all. When they talk about overseas trips, they share them as experiences rather than to show off. That makes them really fun to listen to. I guess truly wealthy people don’t feel the need to one-up others, so they have more peace of mind. Even in this Q&A box, the people answering go out of their way to write things like what they ate for dinner that day or the brands they’re wearing—they’re probably just moderately well-off.
Are people just the kind of creatures who start acting superior when they get a little money? Do papas earning over 100 million yen a year also act arrogant when they were only making tens of millions? Or is it simply part of their personality from the start?
I’m Aya, a female member.
Some of my favorite papas have assets in the hundreds of millions of yen, and others have tens of millions, but none of them ever brag about it.
I don’t think the people on the Q&A site are bragging either. Maybe it just comes down to differences in perception.
These days, no matter what you say, people accuse you of one-upping them or talking down to them, which is exhausting. Maybe there are simply more sensitive people around now.
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I’m Rin, a female SALON member.
I’m not sure, since I’ve never met a man who brags that much. Are any of the respondents here really that boastful?
I haven’t met any of the respondents in person, so I can’t say for sure, but I don’t get the impression that they’re bragging.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Are there really people who brag about things like that? Being able to turn what they ate or their overseas trips into bragging material is a rare talent, if you ask me. Maybe that’s just their personality.
I don’t recall seeing any respondents mention it outside the context of answering a question. I think the questioner may simply be someone who hears everything as bragging.
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Unfortunately, I think the questioner is absolutely right.
I don’t think the respondents here fit what you’re describing, but people earning tens of millions of yen a year often want to dine at expensive restaurants, wear designer suits, and drive luxury cars. I wonder why that is.
I spend just under 40 million yen a year on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’m working hard on my business with the goal of spending 100 million yen a year on papa-katsu.
I usually get by with family restaurants or Yoshinoya, wear Aoyama suits, drive a domestic car, and live in a small apartment.
No matter how much I try to show off, I consider myself a bad papa if I can’t give women a generous allowance. So I live modestly and give the women as much as I can.
Needless to say, I provide the best dates possible—not just in terms of the allowance, but also the meals and conversation.
—Loser Man @ income undisclosed
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