How do you educate men who eat messily, wear dirty clothes, and don’t realize they’re filthy, unhygienic old men???
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Like licking their knives, picking up food that won’t fit on a fork with their hands, and making gestures that are horrifying to watch.
Wrinkled, stained clothes that smell strange.
Bad breath. Bald heads. Huge bellies. Short stature. Tiny penises.
And yet they walk around confidently dressed like that, talking to me so boldly—it’s baffling.
I’m laughing on the inside, but I turn it into a sweet smile.
Does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) make filthy men get the wrong idea about themselves?
I do tell them what I’d like them to improve, but filthy old men don’t have the humility to accept it and try to change.
On the other hand, I respect papas (male supporters) who are tall, work out, keep themselves spotless from head to toe, radiate cleanliness in every little detail, and keep both their cars and apartments perfectly clean. But there are far too many men who are completely out of place, so I had to ask.
I’m Nana Ayase ☆
If he’s a gross old guy, why not kindly tell him, “You’ve got something dirty here”?
And if you don’t like him, just block and delete him.
If you’re going to complain this much, cutting him off wouldn’t cause you any inconvenience, would it?
You must have plenty of other papas (male supporters), right?
If you don’t like someone, go ahead and cut them off one after another.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
One of the good things about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is that women have the freedom to choose as well.
I don’t think you need to force yourself to date someone who’s that unhygienic.
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I’m Osaka, a male member.
Saying, “She’s laughing on the inside but turns it into a cute smile,” is just encouraging that kind of middle-aged guy’s delusion, isn’t it? lol Is that supposed to be some kind of self-deprecating joke? lol
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I fit every single one of the questioner’s criteria for a “gross old man,” and it really hurts.
I’m sorry for being alive. I’m sorry for being a papa (a male supporter). m(｡>__<｡)m
But even though I’m short, fat, bald, have bad breath, athlete’s foot and jock itch, take forever to finish, and unleash a storm of Magikarp kisses, my allowance is really generous.
Would you like to go on a date with me?
A losing man
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There really are men like that, huh. I doubt even coaching would help.
Still, the fact that you’re trying to find a way to continue seeing him speaks volumes about how caring you are. Most women would likely have their schedules filled with other suitable partners.
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